Recent content by GBS

I mean “shat”!

Jeez man. Either your weighing scales are dodgy or you what the Taj Mahal yesterday.

I just want you to know @Brandenburg that you’re a brilliant example on here and a fucking hero.

810 days sober 10 days no MO Such a good day yesterday. We did something together in the morning. We had lunch then I went out for a while to see someone. We had an intimacy session at about 4pm that was very nice, then we went out to a big dinner party and she flirted with me across the table...

808 days sober 8 days no MO

807 days sober 7 days no MO Read a passage from a book yesterday at the SAA meeting. All about Abstinence and the inevitable withdrawal problems you get. It was a great reminder that it’s extremely hard and relapse is normal thing. I am not sure it helps to hear that. No one judges the people...

It’s not a relapse @Freerider - you’re storming this. Don’t be too hard on yourself, man.

Dear @TryingHarder , may I enquire? Did you just look at some porn subs are did that then make you MO with the thoughts? I realise my drawing a distinction is dangerous, but the simple truth is you know you’re just mildly clearing away some of those nettles that grew 8 foot high over the neural...

Hi @Rookie - thanks for posting. Difficult to give you advice. We’re not professionals on here although sometimes we act like we are. I would suggest couples therapy. Wanting sex more than once a month does NOT make you a sex addict. But being driven into a hole where you might watch porn to...

Brilliant post @Qwertyxyz - if temptation ever rises, remember what you just wrote. Platinum.

805 days sober 5 days no MO Thanks for checking in @Blondie and thanks for the picture. You are a kind man. I thought I would see what a mini break felt like. Kids came for this weekend and we had a spectacular day out on Saturday. All good here. Last did the intimacy thing on Friday morning...

800 days sober 0 days no MO Fair enough, bunting out. 800 is a cracking number that I am extremely proud of. I broke the MO seal yesterday. I can’t figure out whether I was making an excuse to be able to do it, or that fantasy thoughts were whizzing around and I needed them to reside. It was a...

Hi @Peter86 - I echo what @TryingHarder says, there needs to be less dopamine in our lives = what seems like boredom. And getting used to that is not easy. I don necessarily subscribe to the view that you have to stop watching TV, but we all probably know what’s obsessive and what isn’t. I am 62...

799 days sober 26 days no MO Nice intimacy yesterday although progress is snail slow. Still, compared to where I was a year ago, this is completely different.

Ha ha… thanks Prommers. Fair enough, I was being a bit hard on myself. Little victories are always worth celebrating. 95% recovered from my annoying little virus. Not been easy to find time for intimacy but later today is on the cards. 798 days sober 25 days no MO