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I have been here since the beginning trying to help partners go through their journey. Partners have helped others with their stories and their recovery for themselves. Some amazing women and men have posted on the pages here. I have often hoped they have been able to live their best lives. I am...

The other day my husband and were eating breakfast and I had showed him something on my phone and he was looking at me when he locked on to a woman walking out of the restaurant. I said in the same conversationAl tone I had been using, “Why don’t you just follow her out of the restaurant?” He...

After being gone awhile I thought I would pop back on. My job has become a lot more demanding with more responsibility. It is a not for profit and I have been grant writing and number crunching. It is good to be back. It is interesting to read through the posts in my absence. Congrats to Joe...

The information is getting out there! Disappointed Gabe and his efforts were not mentioned. This site with support not mentioned either. But porn addiction is being brought out. https://nypost.com/2023/04/20/porn-ruined-lives-of-young-men-facing-erectile-dysfunction/

There are a lot partners struggling with D day or how they found out the important person in their life used porn for what ever reason. And in my threads and many postings, I have outlined my experiences from discovery to the present. A documentary I watched yesterday day had this quote and it...

It has been a long time since my husband and I had D day. I can still feel the shock I felt that day. My reactions and feelings and emotions were not what I expected to have. My husband and I watched some together. Laughed a lot at Real Sex on HBO. I was not a prude that had hang ups at all...

So I will start, I tried to not put him down. I told him I did not understand. I emphasized I was not leaving. What he did was stay committed as well. Most special he sends a love text every morning. And kisses. We promised to sleep naked without sex so we could bond. We tried Kareeza and...

I found this. I think it describes us here in a lot of ways!

So gang, a difficulty for me has come up. Without going into a TMI moment, I will just say I am having difficulty with my internal lady parts. And there is severe pain off and on. Yes should be going to Dr. and is on my list. But the worrier me knows there will be surgery and that leads to...

This is very interesting.

This from 2014. But worth a read. Could the basking in the attention of the ladies be a contributing factor to your wife's mood swings? Menopause is a pretty tough thing to go through. It means to a lot of us that we are indeed getting old. Getting the scan turned off after stopping porn was...

I posted this on GBS thread in men’s section. Putting this here. My purpose is to be helpful. Ten years ago, there was no opportunity to talk to others. Most info out then was, Well ladies it is a guy thing! My hurt as a partner was too great for that dismissive comment. So I talked to...

This is from my husband and my go to seven years ago.  There was not much out there that did not blame me.  The whole site is helpful! http://markchamberlainphd.blogspot.com/p/my-partner-has-porn-habit.html

Here is information from one of my and my husband's go to in the begining.  7 years ago there was not much in the way of information. http://markchamberlainphd.blogspot.com/p/why-kick-porn-habit.html EDIT: fixed link - Gabe

The sticky I posted above is a study about how porn use affects wives.  It shows our feeligs are not crazy.  We are not "losing it".  It was very empowering to read. To all the new partners here, you have come to the right place.  We will listen and help as we can.  You are not alone. To the...

To all the men here, please use Father's Day as a day to lock in that commitment to recover from porn.  Do it for yourself, do it for your children.  You are the living example of how to be a Dad.  When porn is in your brain, there is not a lot left over.  I don't think anyone want their...

http://www.who.int/features/qa/gaming-disorder/en/ This links shows the World Health Organization wants Gaming Disorder recognized as a mental health problem.  How can porn addiction not be looked at for inclusion.  Read, they look like twins.

I do not know what is happening here at RB.  But when it first started, it was a welcoming place for rebooters and partners alike.  We encouraged and supported one another.  I have been here since the beginning.  Men would post in partner comments not because they wanted to call us names, or...

I found this on internet today, a good place to start to turning the tide! Showing there could  be another way to be! http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2017/11/18/want-sexual-misconduct-by-men-to-stop-start-by-cracking-down-on-boys-easy-access-to-internet-porn.html

Do any of the others here that have endured past abuse find themselves being triggered by the events in the news?  I remember all of that and then how when I married my husband that there would be no more sexual harm.  Then we have the whole porn thing occur in our marriage and I felt so duped...