I have ED, and anxiety related issues

Blackbird025

New Member
Hi,
I am 29 and I have porn induced ED, I didn’t notice this until recently I couldn’t enjoy it even a bit with my girlfriend, I have started feeling sex in overrated and thinking in my own head that bj excites me or me doing other stuff to girl making her moan excites me, trying role play excites me but it does not, I feel I am a freak, I am dealing with so much of anxiety that one moment I think I won’t do an activity and the other moment I do it, I was so fucking determined in my head few years, I could control my mind and now it is taming me like a slave, I even consulted physician and he prescribed some meds and still I don’t get hard erections, I told him I am very much hooked to porn and he was like it is normal, so didn’t shut it down completely until recently I read this book “ your brain on porn” and now I realise how much I have damaged my brain just for those milliseconds of dopamine hit. I am getting married and and have anxiety issues whether I’ll able to perform or not and she would leave me because of my insecurities these thoughts are killing me.
please help me how do I rewire my brain. I even have suicidal thoughts sometimes that I am worthless, feel cornered and feel no one loves me.
please someone help me out.
 

Blackbird025

New Member
Hey, that is normal condition in today's era,
Everyone wants a batter sex in their life but they don't do this because of having erectile dysfunction problems. i think you should ask your personal doctor or pharmacist about your issues.
They will give you best advices about ED and also prefer right medicines to take before doing activities.
Most of people aware from this meds such Kamagra 100 and Fildena 100.
I think you must try it to treat your ED problems.
Thank, but how to avoid porn n sexual content that is so easily available on every social media
 

Stiffy999

Active Member
Hi,
I am 29 and I have porn induced ED, I didn’t notice this until recently I couldn’t enjoy it even a bit with my girlfriend, I have started feeling sex in overrated and thinking in my own head that bj excites me or me doing other stuff to girl making her moan excites me, trying role play excites me but it does not, I feel I am a freak, I am dealing with so much of anxiety that one moment I think I won’t do an activity and the other moment I do it, I was so fucking determined in my head few years, I could control my mind and now it is taming me like a slave, I even consulted physician and he prescribed some meds and still I don’t get hard erections, I told him I am very much hooked to porn and he was like it is normal, so didn’t shut it down completely until recently I read this book “ your brain on porn” and now I realise how much I have damaged my brain just for those milliseconds of dopamine hit. I am getting married and and have anxiety issues whether I’ll able to perform or not and she would leave me because of my insecurities these thoughts are killing me.
please help me how do I rewire my brain. I even have suicidal thoughts sometimes that I am worthless, feel cornered and feel no one loves me.
please someone help me out.
Hey bro,all guys here have felt the same.It is the most embarrassing and the most traumatic experience to realize that you have PIED but be smart about it and be sure that it is 100% reversible you have hundreds of thousands success stories to read that confirm my statement.The worst thing you can do is the exact thing you are doing right now-panicing and being sucidial.Explain your gf/wife your situation and if she loves she will understand and support you.Set your NoFap goal like 90 days and see if your confidence grows and try for sex.In order to properly rewire you need to leave your head and your mind and forget about your existence and about your dick.Give all attention to your gf/wife make her the happiest woman in the world.You surely know many other ways to satisfy a woman that don't involve hard dick so go for that and forget about yourself because that is exactly what porn teaches you-thst only you and your dick and your O is important.however it's not the case
 

Blackbird025

New Member
Hey bro,all guys here have felt the same.It is the most embarrassing and the most traumatic experience to realize that you have PIED but be smart about it and be sure that it is 100% reversible you have hundreds of thousands success stories to read that confirm my statement.The worst thing you can do is the exact thing you are doing right now-panicing and being sucidial.Explain your gf/wife your situation and if she loves she will understand and support you.Set your NoFap goal like 90 days and see if your confidence grows and try for sex.In order to properly rewire you need to leave your head and your mind and forget about your existence and about your dick.Give all attention to your gf/wife make her the happiest woman in the world.You surely know many other ways to satisfy a woman that don't involve hard dick so go for that and forget about yourself because that is exactly what porn teaches you-thst only you and your dick and your O is important.however it's not the case
Thanks a lot, much appreciated
 

keyballa

Member
Thank, but how to avoid porn n sexual content that is so easily available on every social media
Hey bro. Me and hundreds of guys are experiencing this same feeling. So don’t feel alone. I had PIED and I can tell you once you stay off from PMO for 2-3 months you will gain your confidence back and you will be back to normal. Just take time off porn and masturbatuon. Relax and enjoy life and don’t worry about it too much. Get it out your head and most importantly be honest with your wife and explain the situation. If your not ready to have sex again it’s okay. Please her different ways like eating her out and other stuff she likes. Try foreplay and once ur dick gets naturally hard without you forcing it then you know ur ready. As far as social media, take a break from it. That worked from me. If you don’t want to delete your profile it fine, but just delete the app and take a break. Download the porn blocker app. That was one of the best investments for me I did earlier this year. Everything will be fine but it will take time and discipline.
 

Blackbird025

New Member
Hey bro. Me and hundreds of guys are experiencing this same feeling. So don’t feel alone. I had PIED and I can tell you once you stay off from PMO for 2-3 months you will gain your confidence back and you will be back to normal. Just take time off porn and masturbatuon. Relax and enjoy life and don’t worry about it too much. Get it out your head and most importantly be honest with your wife and explain the situation. If your not ready to have sex again it’s okay. Please her different ways like eating her out and other stuff she likes. Try foreplay and once ur dick gets naturally hard without you forcing it then you know ur ready. As far as social media, take a break from it. That worked from me. If you don’t want to delete your profile it fine, but just delete the app and take a break. Download the porn blocker app. That was one of the best investments for me I did earlier this year. Everything will be fine but it will take time and discipline.
Seriously thanks a lot, I feel now that I am not alone.
 

keyballa

Member
Seriously thanks a lot, I feel now that I am not alone.
Nah man. You are definitely not alone. Look at Gabe Deem story on YouTube. It took him 9 months of reboot for him to be completely healed from PIED. I have had PIED for years and I what I noticed is that every time I reboot for about 2-3 months. It goes away and I naturally feel confident and have successful sex. Unfortunately what I also noticed is that every time I relapse and go back to porn I fall right back into PIED. And for me it’s been a back and forth with porn addiction for years for me. I finally downloaded a Porn Blocker on my app to get rid of this addiction for good. Strong Will is not enough, you literally have to take a break from social media and permanently ban all porn sites from your phone. It worked for me. And I know it can work for you. Good luck bro and stay postive and keep trucking. You will get thru this 💪🏿
 

Fappy

Respected Member
all great advice here. ill aslo addd that yes, it is 100% reversible and you can get your life (and penis) back if you stick to it. but go very slowly, its not a race. it takes a lot of patience and time spent observing your mind, but trust me its time well worth it. set yourself small goals, be aware of triggers, and remove yourself from social media and other potential pron mindfeilds.
 
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