PositiveBoi
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Hello everyone, thanks a lot for all the support so far.
Well, it seems to me that I really still struggle with the very basics of PIED. I have heard/read a few times that some people avoid orgasms and I do understand that masturbating while fantasizing might throw you back. What I dont understand is how that could even be possible by coming inside your significant other while having lovely intercourse.
I met this girl and she's not only the best, most wonderful, most beautiful person I know, she also actively helps me with my progress. Or so we think. Now before her I was a virgin. Now a few weeks into our relationship we had sex. A lot of it. Sometimes daily. Sometimes multiple times per day. Here is what I felt at first: Things were great, even though it takes some effort to get me hard enough to penetrate, even though my erection is only like 70%. I get to cum every time, so does my girl (though not during penetration, but other means). We are very happy and see it as a sign of progress.
Now what I thought was happening is that I cant really expect things to work everytime we try. It looked like as if the level of erection is not the same every day. Only today I realize it might as well be getting worse. You see, every time we do it I feel like i get less hard, like it takes a lot longer to build up and also like as if I feel less when being inside my GF making it harder to cum. Could this be true? After everything going so well the past few days do I now need to tell her we need to cut back? By how I write, you can guess this would leave me devastated but I am willing to face the truth here. I just dont want to end something so pure and beautiful on a hunch. So please help me out...
Well, it seems to me that I really still struggle with the very basics of PIED. I have heard/read a few times that some people avoid orgasms and I do understand that masturbating while fantasizing might throw you back. What I dont understand is how that could even be possible by coming inside your significant other while having lovely intercourse.
I met this girl and she's not only the best, most wonderful, most beautiful person I know, she also actively helps me with my progress. Or so we think. Now before her I was a virgin. Now a few weeks into our relationship we had sex. A lot of it. Sometimes daily. Sometimes multiple times per day. Here is what I felt at first: Things were great, even though it takes some effort to get me hard enough to penetrate, even though my erection is only like 70%. I get to cum every time, so does my girl (though not during penetration, but other means). We are very happy and see it as a sign of progress.
Now what I thought was happening is that I cant really expect things to work everytime we try. It looked like as if the level of erection is not the same every day. Only today I realize it might as well be getting worse. You see, every time we do it I feel like i get less hard, like it takes a lot longer to build up and also like as if I feel less when being inside my GF making it harder to cum. Could this be true? After everything going so well the past few days do I now need to tell her we need to cut back? By how I write, you can guess this would leave me devastated but I am willing to face the truth here. I just dont want to end something so pure and beautiful on a hunch. So please help me out...