Recent content by AlexthenotsoGreat

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    Ejaculation without Stimulation

    I've had the same problem. It happens when I watch porn mostly. In your case it sounds like it could simply be a case of high testosterone. If you are very fit and work out and don't masturbate the odds are that your body will get rid of the semen in some other way. Don't worry about it this...
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    Therapy

    Thanks for sharing btw.
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    The Infamous 90 Days!!!!

    Hey, congratulations! What do you recommend for someone who has only made it to around 30 days? I'm finding it hard to break that wall.
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    Therapy

    It sounds like you could use therapy if you fantasized about that. I used to go and it can be very helpful when you have unwanted behaviors or thoughts. You can always try it and see how it works, but you might need a at least a few sessions to get anything out of it. I know how weird it feels...
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    Medicating rejection with porn

    Hi Sam, thank you for your honesty. I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. What we think of ourselves, and how we deal with that can be just as big of an issue as the porn itself. For the longest time I was beating myself up because I kept being rejected. Now I've come to realize that we...
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    Medicating rejection with porn

    Thanks for this.
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    Medicating rejection with porn

    I'm not going to take very long to explain, but basically I got rejected by a woman quite recently. And what do you know, I end up with my pants down on the toilet, doing the same old thing to ease the pain. What's worse, I told myself I would give in if I got rejected again. I wish I could say...
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    What’s the point?

    That's great, I'm glad. And of course the most important thing is to quit addictive behaviors. I don't know how far along you are in that, but it does have an effect on mental wellbeing as well. Don't forget to pray to God for a wife. It's too easy to think it's all up to us. God bless!
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    What’s the point?

    I'm in a similar situation. 37, never had a real relationship, too much time on my hands, few friends to speak of. I also used to attend 12-step for five years but then I realized that only very few of those attending experienced any real change. Shortly after I quit the group I was off porn for...
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    Successful reboot living with parents?

    That wasn't helpful, but I get it. I have close to a year before my house is done. Thankfully I almost never have urges. I guess I should be glad for that.
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    Successful reboot living with parents?

    I'm not sure anyone can give me a clear answer on this, but I'm temporarily living with my parents for another six months while my houseplans are being finalized. Have any of you successfully rebooted while living with your parents? For me the problem becomes that we live in a small house, we...
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    Am I in a flatline?

    Don't you mean "keep it down"? Sorry.
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    Am I in a flatline?

    I do hard mode as well. Yeah, def a weird feeling, like my brain is sort of numb.
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    Am I in a flatline?

    Oh, wow. I never expected this to happen as I've never had this before. It feels strange but at the same time I'm glad that it could be the means to recovery. Thanks for the reply.
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    Am I in a flatline?

    Hi guys, I've been off porn for about three weeks since my latest relapse. I have been uninterested in porn in general, and never have erections, not even a little. I visited a site in my boredom, but I still couldn't get an erection. Am I in the flatline? It kind of feels like I am. Stay...
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