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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    I agree @Escapeandnevercomeback
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    Day 3 today I realize it’s important to revisit here to seek and fill up your motivation tank to ride out the next few days of sober living .so I guess I will keep visiting here until the goal is achieved . So all those who are with me let us end 2021 with 100 days of sober living in 2021...
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    Hello Rebooters, hope y'all making some progress. I was down in trenches yesterday and so trying to get up this time and with a new vow. There's only 101 days left in 2021 and if not now its never. I am going with this idea that I will never get to live 100 sober days in 2021 ever again if I...
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    I keep relapsing to chat rooms I am targeting 90 days hard mode but not able to attain it .forget 90 days I haven’t even made it past 10 days in recent years. I recently listened to the audio book “breaking the cycle” from George Collins ma . It was insightful and gives you some tools to...
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    I had a relapse today on 7/23 and I will be starting over from tomorrow . About to complete “your brain on porn book”
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    Getting my life back

    Freddy - good going bro . I have felt jealous in my life about my bitter rival and I chose to handle it by wishing more success for this person than me who I was jealous for and that killed my jealous feeling and filled me with peace . Keep up the good work!!!
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    This time I have to quit it for good!

    Hey brother , you are going good . Keep up the focus bro and 20 days will be here in no time . Wishing you success!!! MI30S
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    I love myself and will recover

    Keep going brother .. all the best !
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    Sobriety date of 7/19 . Had a relapse on 7/18 I am reading “your brain on porn book” now from Gary Wilson
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    Hello, I have not read the book yet. I will read it cover to cover and try to understand it. Thanks for suggesting. MI30S
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    I have tried asking my partner for help . She used to help my by setting pin codes and stuff on my phone to help me . But not anymore. I always found a way around the phone security codes and would end up in PMO or texting . I feel it did not work for me . Now the ownership is solely on me since...
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    Thanks for your encouraging words . Yes I am into self pity sometimes and judge my abilities to come out sober in my life . This bad habit loop has indeed destroyed my self confidence , I try not to label myself a “loser” and stay positive , even if I relapse time and time again . I guess we...
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    I Made it to 90 Days!!!!

    Congratulations buddy . You have demonstrated it is possible!
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    I don’t seem to absorb the mistakes others do and learn from it . I am almost so dumb to know and yet not to know at the same time that it’s happening to me but I can’t or don’t want to stop it NOW . I need to fix this pattern I have developed over my life
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    Man_in_30s_trying_to_quit_from_last_10years

    I have relapsed again and it was aweful. It was like I am into the PMO and not enjoying it but still can’t help stop it . I succumbed with no joy in it . I felt was It’s all automated now and I don’t have any control. After PMO I again felt I should have stopped myself before it all started ...
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