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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    Thank you very much Jeks and Phineas. I really appreciate it and helps me to move on.
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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    Hi all, I need some help with fantasies. I do not want to give details about my fantasies (to avoid triggers), but these last days I'm struck by my fantasies, and the feeling is a bit overwhelming. Sometimes even I just can't focus in whatever the heck I'm doing. Any advice on this? It would...
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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    Hi all, Back to work-routine. It seems that the days ahead will come with many things to do. I need to balance my professional life (working in the company + working on my thesis + teaching at the university) with my personal life (eating healthy + doing exercise + taking care of GF + family)...
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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    I'm on a trip with my GF and her family. That's why I've been off in the last days. Just wanted to catch up. Today is day 19 without adult content. These past days were good. However, tonight I had 2 sex dreams related to my fetishes. I wake up feeling weird (and excited, TBH). The feeling...
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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    Struggling to not start the vicious cycle of sexual fantasies. One thing is clear here: if you do not want to finish, do not start. Instead of that, focus on your stuff. Keep you posted. Thanks. Days without adult content = 12 Report = September 3, 2021
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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    Thank you for your kind message and your support!
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    Fully recovered in 200 days!

    Thank you for sharing your advices. I will definitely take more care about my sleep time and will continue with my goal to achieve a more active and healthy lifestyle.
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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    Today I feel a little bit likely to search for adult content, especially the one related to my fetishes. By now I've been able to manage it and I haven't done anything I shouldn't have. I definitely want to get rid of this. This moment, when I'm alone at home working at my own pace, is one of...
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    A friend's advice

    Hi Sam, I think you will be more than understood (and not judged) here. All the best.
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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    Hi all, First week of this new challenge completed. I've had sex 2 or 3 times with my GF successfully. Knowing that I can have sex with my GF reassures me a lot. There was a time when I was unable to have sex, so keep faith in the process. Everything gets better with time. The first days are...
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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    Well, a few more details about me: - I'm 27 yo. I work in a great company and currently doing my phd thesis. Some weeks can be stressfull, but in general I'm pretty happy and control my stress levels well. Not a problem, thankfully. - I live with my GF. We are together for 9 months and she...
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    Re-starting the process my way, now with girlfriend. Thoughts and learnings. Updates on Sundays.

    Hi all, Well, here I am again. I had this account since last year but I wasn't very active. First of all, I'm here because today I'm not feeling well with myself. I mean, I have a girlfriend and our relationship is GREAT. I feel so well with her and we can do sex almost whenever we want...
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    How do you SUCCESSFULLY overcome triggers that could lead to relapse?

    Hi all, I believe that one of the big reasons I relapse is because when I feel triggered (mainly because I feel alone, stressed, anxious, pressured...), it's almost impossible to say NO to adult content. I mean, I think I'm capable to manage porn, but I do see some adult content websites...
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    Reboot journal from a Spaniard. Dealing with porn addiction and insecurities.

    Monday, 13/04/20. Day 1 Hi all, I'm a 25 yo guy from Spain. I will turn 26 yo next month (in may). Well, I like keep thigs simple, so I'm not gonna dwell with my background and my full story. In short, apart from my sexlife, everything goes pretty well, at least, for the people around me...
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