Recent content by Betrayed

Honestly I would chose the same thing. I would never want to raise a child seeing me disrespected like that. Make your own life separate from him and raise your child to be respected and be respectful.

Honestly I do not have an answer to that we started sleeping separate about a week ago. I just feel safer that way knowing he isn’t leaving my side to go do it. I know he may still be doing it but at least I’m not waking up to it :(. Give her time. She will know when it’s right to be back in the...

I’m so hurt. It only been about two months since D day. We have been together almost three years. He has been looking at porn and hiding it behind my back the whole time. Lying to my face. I have been trying so hard to pretend it is behind me. It’s not. It bothers me every day. My heart aches. I...

In every way possible show her you are not going back to it. Give her your phone whenever you can. Let her know she can look at it whenever she wants. Keep telling her you love her..

I honestly think it is definitely your families right to know why your wife is leaving. This is showing respect for her. If you don’t tell them why then they might assume she did something wrong and that will kill her. Why should she suffer more? Be honest with everyone.

You are enough. He was not enough.

Way to go! I so wish my man would have come forward to me instead of lying for so long. I think I would have responded the same had he cam to me right away. Now I’m just devastated and feel broken from the lies. Good for you do addressing this head on!

Thank you so much for the reply. I will ask him to read that and watch the Ted talk. I sure hope I can get to forgiveness some day too.

I can completely understand how you are feeling. I feel so inadequate. Those voices in my head are much louder now. It sucks. Just wanted you to know you aren’t alone.

This is my first time posting. I found out about my partners problem a couple days ago. I am so hurt and feel so betrayed. I knew there was something going on because he looked so guilty when I’d come in to the room and he’d be on his phone. His phone has become something I completely hate. I...