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Still no improvements. But as i thought my situation is different and porn is not the only variable here. Losing hope unfortunately

Dont know precisely but more than one month, less than two

Hi guys, still no improvements here. Sex is a distant memory. I miss when i made love with my fiancee last year. I really wish i could go back there or anyway i hope those moments will get back sooner or later. As i mentioned i had a lot going on in my life and probably this is not the right...

Yes I know I should be grateful for the little improvements but life doesnt wait for you and now i am totally useless sexually

Losing some hope reading here and there about guys in flatline for years and feeling they are incurable. I woke up with some inconsistent boners these days and i kinda "cried" feeling my penis so weird with the head not full of blood. The only good thing is that all these years i woke up with no...

Thank you very much, Blondie. I am using this days to read and get educated about porn problems. I got to know what Dr. Carlo Foresta said :"recovery is possible within a few months"... I hope so. These days I woke up with a timid erection that lasted a couple of minutes. I am far far away from...

Thanks for letting me know. I didnt escalate that much either but it seems i was vulnerable. Who knows

Thank you, Blondie, for your wise words. As I said I am thinking at those times when I had pretty normal sex with her but then stupidly relapsed. I want to think at those times as something I could reach again (again, sorry if i cant express properly but English is not my mother tongue)...

Thank you for the chance to talk. Well, it is also a little bit embarassing for me being older and maybe stupid because I should have known better that porn was harming. Younger guys have the inexperience by their side but me, in my 40's? What was I thinking masturbating to porn? I feel ashamed...

Thank you, I am reading it now. I am actually pretty scared... i had a dream tonight where I had sex but as I woke up I am totally non responsive. As I mentioned early maybe my issues are not all porn related but porn is definitely an issue

Thank you for your words of entouragement. I wish Anna Lembke was right when she said "one month of abstinence will do the job" but I guess it will take a lot longer. I won't bother you guys with my rants though. I just hope to feel good soon

Thank you for your kind reply. I guess in my situation a lot has to do with anxiety and distress but I guess that giving up porn will only bring good things in my life. If it won't treat everything it will at least take care of all porn related problems. I still dont know if my low libido is...

Hi everyone, before I start with this thread I apologise for my English. I hope everything I will write it will make sense. I guess I am older than many of you here as I am a 45 years old man. I had a very troubled life with an abusive (unfortunately even sexually) and traumatic childhood, rough...