Recent content by Gracie

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    Back in the ring...hoping to go the distance

    Glad to see you making progress!
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    Hey unchained! Yes I remember you! Sorry/happy you are back. Sorry it is necessary, but happy you know where to come for support and advice.
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    Best blocker for P?

    There are a lot of people on here that use covenant eyes. A better place to ask the question would be the Porn Addiction thread. The men can tell you pros and cons of content blockers.
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    First Time Here, Long Time Coming

    Hello, welcome to the forum! Good for you wanting to change. I am a partner, my husband was a porn addict. I would get the book “Love You, Hate the Porn” by Mark Chamberlain and Geoff Steurer. It was a turning point in our recovery. I use our because we were trying to get our marriage back...
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    Reboot Questions

    With my husband, I did not think the reruns in his head were going to be helpful. So any sex had to be with us side by side. Even masturbation. Any intercourse we had was eyes open for both of us. He needs to retire to you. And this works!
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    High school teacher needs advice

    Check out Fight the New Drug. They have speakers that will come to your school!
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    I'm 22, I hate porn and I still watch it. I need help

    How are you doing?
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    Here is hoping that women and men are reading these threads. It really helps to know you are not the only one this has happened to!
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    Hi, I am new here! Please help!

    Love you Hate the Porn is the Best!
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    I'm 22, I hate porn and I still watch it. I need help

    Hey, Just do this one day at a time. When I discovered my husband was using, I would even use one day at a time. Sometimes an hour at a time. Do not view this as a two ton elephant! It is little steps over time that take you to your goal. But the most important thing is to keep taking...
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    Encouragement from my SO

    Just a thought here: It is NOT your partners DUTY to satisfy you sexually! It is up to you and your partner to work toward a relationship that is mutually consensual and provides mutual enjoyment. That is when your relationship is fun and mutually fulfilling.
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    no more to and fro

    For everyone one on the fence about telling or not telling, I would like to say a couple of things. Telling takes away the risk of “discovery”. Discovery is very emotional for both. And for most wives and SOs it is the secrecy that hurts most. Yes we also get caught up in comparing us to...
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    I'm 22, I hate porn and I still watch it. I need help

    Hi, Andrew. Just checking on you. You are a wonderful person. Why? You recognize that there is a problem. How many 22 year olds do that? (Especially on this topic). My husband used. He started a long time ago. But one thing I learned in all my reading is that believing in yourself is...
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    Hello Gentlemen. Now we begin.

    Yes, we have lost an important person.
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    My husband had an affair and porn addiction

    I feel your pain. My husband did not have an affair, but the porn use discovery broke my heart in two. It destroyed my self esteem. It was awful. We worked hard together. Two things helped immensely, the Book Love You Hate the Porn and a blog It has thing...