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    I Need Feedback On This Letter Before I Send It

    So I wrote a letter to Codys dad because cody, well is too scared to stand up to his parents. I really need feedback. This letter is quite matter of fact and my goal was to be non-aggressive but assertive. Is there anything I should change? (wrote this because Cody told his dad about in-house...
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    Youtube Vid on Betrayal Trauma -good vid to show your addicted partner

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ijLgd9ehDec
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    Partners of PA's Let me know ...

    Hey guys, so I haven't been on here in a bit with life getting so busy. This summer has been crazy, literally. With the pregnancy, wedding, school, my new blog, and landing a new online magazine job, my time has escaped me. My blog addresses many things and I have what I call "Married Monday"...
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    What it's like to be a partner

    So I haven't been on in a while. Lots has happened. I am 27 weeks pregnant, got a magazine job, started a mom blog, etc. But I wanted to post this big moment for me. I finally was able to express the pain I've been through to my husband and he sat there adn listened and didn't fight me on it...
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    Genuine Apology!

    I've been with my now fiance for 2 years. I caught his addiction at the one year mark. He is a year clean. Anyways, so during his year clean, he focused on building his life, and now we have started focusing on the relationship repair. Last two nights we've gone through the packets I'd printed...
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    Question about Responsibility

    So I have a question to the addicts. My fiance is one year clean and he has turned his life around, and I couldn't be more proud of him. Though, sometimes these days (it used to be all the time), he still doesn't seem to take things seriously and be responsible. Money is one thing he really...
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    Why Men Objectify Women

    So I found this article ages ago, possibly prior to D-day, but I was going through old books marks about found this article and I was thinking that this was a very enlightening article. https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/why-men-objectify-women/ I found that addicts could possibly...
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    Am I the only one who needs to feel desired and romanced after this???

    I feel at a loss. I am trying to figure out if there is something wrong with me. I have this need to feel desired/wanted and to be romanced since I found out about his addiction. I feel like the addiction basically just ruined the "us" relationship, and I'm still wanting to feel romanced...
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    Question to PA's in serious longterm relationships

    Hi, so I am a partner of a PA. June 8th will mark one year of him being clean. He has made such amazing progress on himself throughout this year, getting back in school and getting good grades, doing better at work and being more responsible with work, and getting back into his hobbies like...
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    Worst Therapist Ever.

    I honestly feel so terrible for my partner. He had hoped this new therapist would be better but they were worse than the first. This therapist, when my partner cancelled his session to say it wasn't working because the therapist didn't seem engaged and doesn't talk, responded with saying, "Sorry...
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    How to get through the emotional disconnect

    I am finding myself pretty depressed this past week and a half. We just moved and I know we are tired, but I have found myself just feeling a bit hopeless at times. There are days where it seems like we make progress with having conversations together (i.e. ones not about cars all the time, or...
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    Question to PA's

    I am a partner of a PA and he has been 11 months clean. He has made progress in several areas of his life like education and work, and I'm so proud of him. For the most part, he understands the boundaries that have been set so I can feel safe in the relationship. Emotionally speaking, though, it...
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    Understanding Why Porn Addiction is a Brain Disease

    Found this article and found it to be an interesting read. As someone interested in psychology and neuroscience I enjoyed learning more about the aspects of the brain and the mind. I've had classes where we learned about the brain and neurotransmitters, but I think this author really has a good...
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    Cross Addiction????

    I think I've mentioned somewhere on here before about how my partner can be obsessed with cars. We also thought at one point his porn addiction was turning into car addiction instead. For a while he got better, and now that we talked about it again, he realized that twice a week he gets strong...
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    The Scarlett Letter

    I loved The Scarlett Letter in high school. I remember reading it and feeling so angry at the towns' people for making Hester wear the letter "A" for adulterer. I posted ages ago about how my partner had posted on facebook about his addiction and came out about it. I also mentioned the...
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