I MO'd through phone sex: relapse?

iagarain

Member
Hello so I was 31 days into my reboot today, yesterday I got really excited with my gf which I have a beautiful emotional connection with too. As always I wasn't able to cum but it wasn't bothering me as I enjoyed the moment and every part of her body.
Today she teased me a bit in the afternoon and later she was at her house and I was at mine but she called me and we started talking. We talked about many stuff but sometimes she was throwing hints at freaky stuff that got me really excited and eventually I started M'oing, we kept talking a bit and then she added some more spice till eventually I got really into it and came.
Do I have to set my timer back on 0? Will this slow my recovery a lot? I was just starting to have some fun with her... I don't wanna start from 0 again
 

Fappy

Respected Member
Mmmmm sort of a grey area. while it wasnt PMO or "artificial", id say no, its not a relapse. also the fact that it was with someone whom you have emotional affection for counts a lot too. it wasnt some prostitute or some scumbag on a camera. thats a NO from me, not a relapse, but still dont make a habit out of it!
 

Sangiha

Member
What kind of reboot are you doing? If you are doing hardmode, it is definitely a relapse. Even if you are not doing hardmode, stimulation through pixels on a screen to orgasm affects your brain the same way no matter if its your girl or porn, even though porn is obviously way worse. If you have to ask yourself this question, it probably is a relapse. You need to set rules for yourself and it shouldnt matter what anybody else thinks. Just don’t cheat yourself because its your body and mind that you are dealing with. So what if someone say its a relapse or not? its all about your progress and your journey and if its something that is going to hinder that, you should count it as a relapse. Number of days don’t matter. It is all about coming out on the other side as the best version of yourself. There is absolutely no point of reaching 100 days when you are cheating yourself with loopholes and you are still struggling with this addiction. You would much rather be 30 days in and be healed since you know you did this the best possible way (Not saying people are healed in 30 days but you know what i mean). I highly recommend doing a clean hardmode reboot for yourself.
 
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iagarain

Member
Hmm I am doing a "normal" reboot I'd say, I am 100% committed into no more porn but not that sure about MO, I wanna have my stuff working again and use it with my gf asap tbh... There were no pixels involved, just my gf words and my imagination, I just want this to fix asap
 

Sangiha

Member
Thats much better for sure. I thought by phone sex you meant video call. If you are tryna fix asap though, hardmode is by far the fastest path to beastmode haha
 
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