Hi everyone. Ok so, I've had erectile dysfunction for like 10 years. I could masturbate to porn and porn thoughts, but I couldn't get it up in front of a girl. For 10 years. This stuff ruined several relationships.
I only became aware of my porn and masturbation addiction in 2014 and I decided to stop porn for good.
I couldn't go further than 2/3 weeks of NoPorn for years, but this time I think I'm on the winning side. Last time I watched porn was in november ! I've been clean for more than 3 months, and I feel good about it. ;D (I also drastically reduced masturbation this time)
Long story short, I met a girl recently and we get along really well. The problem is, now that I finally can get my penis hard in front of a girl... Well I suffer from premature ejaculation now. Of course this is an improvement considering I couldn't get hard in front of a girl for more than a decade. But still this is not right. I can't last more than 40 seconds to 1 minute. It just feels too good, my penis is way too sensitive.
My gf has been really cool about it somehow, she doesn't really mind. Keeps telling me that she can orgasm with other methods anyway. But I don't like this situation at all and now that I can finally have sex I want it to be good and to last longer than a few seconds :'(
Any tips on how I could change this ? This happenned the first time and I really wasn't shocked because this was the first time I had sex in my life. But it happenned the second time and the third time as well. I feel quite bad about it.
Anyway stopping porn and reducing masturbation was the best decision I've ever taken in my whole life and I'll never get back to it. Porn gave me problems on so many levels. But now it seems like I have another problem to face. Help !!!
I only became aware of my porn and masturbation addiction in 2014 and I decided to stop porn for good.
I couldn't go further than 2/3 weeks of NoPorn for years, but this time I think I'm on the winning side. Last time I watched porn was in november ! I've been clean for more than 3 months, and I feel good about it. ;D (I also drastically reduced masturbation this time)
Long story short, I met a girl recently and we get along really well. The problem is, now that I finally can get my penis hard in front of a girl... Well I suffer from premature ejaculation now. Of course this is an improvement considering I couldn't get hard in front of a girl for more than a decade. But still this is not right. I can't last more than 40 seconds to 1 minute. It just feels too good, my penis is way too sensitive.
My gf has been really cool about it somehow, she doesn't really mind. Keeps telling me that she can orgasm with other methods anyway. But I don't like this situation at all and now that I can finally have sex I want it to be good and to last longer than a few seconds :'(
Any tips on how I could change this ? This happenned the first time and I really wasn't shocked because this was the first time I had sex in my life. But it happenned the second time and the third time as well. I feel quite bad about it.
Anyway stopping porn and reducing masturbation was the best decision I've ever taken in my whole life and I'll never get back to it. Porn gave me problems on so many levels. But now it seems like I have another problem to face. Help !!!