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Thank you. I think wiring myself to that experience becomes essential since I've spent the formative teens of my life hooked to high speed internet porn with little real-person experience. I'll surely be telling her soon!

That's great advice. I plan on telling her soon if we become more serious. I think honesty and vulnerability will help in this journey

Thank you. I will surely be trying my best to just relax and be in the moment with her.

Thanks you. That's what I've been wondering too. This was my first time even touching a girl after one year of complete abstinence. in this one year I have noticed signs- biggest ones being morning wood and random erections. But as soon as I was making out it felt like there was some kind of...

Thank you! I see no option but to continue wondering if I'll ever be healed

Hey everyone! I have completed one year of hardmode reboot with no rewiring. Yesterday I was making out with a girl I liked and I didn't feel any erection at all. I don't think I was in a flatline. My morning wood over this one year has improved. But I am a virgin. I am very confused as I...

All the best! We're with you.

It's normal. Happened with me too! Probably PIED

It is normal. Don't worry.

I love that Marcus Aurelius quote. Thank you!

I am with you, man. Just feel the anxiety. Just feel it into the very ground of your being. Don't escape. The goal is to relieve ourselves of all self-medication and to stare into the face of reality, smilingly and unflinchingly. I believe in you.

I believe in you. Next time you get the urge to watch porn, remember "If getting upset about something unpleasant is like being bitten by a snake, desiring to grasp for what seems pleasant is like grabbing the snake's tail- sooner or later, it will bite you".

Hey, man, we're here for you. Congratulations on Day 8. I wish you all the self-compassion that you can afford on this journey. Self-compassion isn't self-pity but it is simply warmth and concern and good wishes for yourself just like compassion for another person. Don't be too hard on yourself...

Hey, Ajinkya! That's great. I got my first MW on the 11th day of the reboot- it was extremely mild at first but later it improved. Good luck!

#2 Okay, something a bit strange is happening. During the first 120 days of my hard mode reboot, I had a total of 3 wet dreams. After those 120 days, in the last 12 days, I have had 3 wet dreams. The pace of these wet dreams seems to have been accelerated all of a sudden and it feels weird. Wet...

Thank you Ziga! Good luck to you too!

Yes, I understand that. One trick that I personally find helpful for me is to try and look into the eyes of random women than to let my eyes wander over their body with the usual sexual thoughts. I haven't been too good at doing this but still, I try to maintain it as much as possible. It does...

Yes, it happens. It happened to me too. The sole reason to watch porn became so that I could escape my emotions of stress. After quitting it feels like a reservoir of emotions had burst out in my heart. Still feel numb during flatlines but that's part and parcel of the game.

March onwards, we are together!

I really like the seeing someone 1x per week suggestion. Seems helpful. Will surely try to incorporate that in my schedule somewhere down the line.