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Hi Sammy, Trust is definitely missing from our relationship, I have days where Im like ok its not my issue, but then I think well it sorta is because its affecting how I see him and just the little things like looking for signs he's up to something and also like you said, I feel like Im...

Hi I too are from years gone by who has been dealing with trust issues, since basically he’s never admitted to anything it’s always my discovery, which in turn he tries to twist and also uses anger as a response instead of empathy. I wish I had a plan but I’m at a loss, tried counselling but...

Hi yes exactly I don’t want a lecture or how great she is about her job just some empathy really … don’t feel I’m in the right place at moment but ok I’ll def look for that … betrayal trauma I feel it’s never been dealt with but since mum and dad are gone feel like I just want to get on with...

Thought I’d update my progress … went to councillor what a joke, wanted to talk to him etc wanted couples counselling etc, I really just went there to get things off my chest I found her condescending and unhelpful to say the least…obviously won’t be going back there, pretty sure she was trying...

I totally agree about the gut feelings, the betrayal, the feelings of not being good enough! Yes I wonder can my partner really love someone he’s a bloody great liar and actor, it’s undermined our relationship where trust is barely there but since he’s put blockers on I do feel safer. But your...

Hi Gracie how sad that’s so tough for your granddaughter it feels like this will certainly happen more and more as the world of media and online becomes very sexualised… just tits and ass everywhere I just try and switch off these days have no respect for my partner in many ways, trust has gone...

Thank u … it makes me feel a whole lot better oh and he downloaded a blocking ap on his phone and all computers we use but we still have smart TV’s … I’ve got an appt with a councillor next Friday but I do feel better that he is trying. I must say I am not convinced yet though and will not let...

Hi thanks for the reply I value thoughts by others on here… I did think that also but he is not a sharer great at texting Cards Birthday presents even flowers but actually saying words and sharing feelings it’s very hard for him. He has five sisters whether that had influence who knows I had...

BTW He Never said he Loved Me...

Hi back again thought i would just get this off my chest since he wont talk to me... Finally asked the question Are You Looking At Porn?? His answer was categorically NO! Did I have proof... not in the sense he is talking about but I had lots of bread crumb stuff. Anyway he said that I don't...

Hi thanks for the reply. I too have noticed less partners on here I have stalked recently until I got enuf courage up to post I’m a private person not a fan of social media etc as feel it’s just too fake. I just feel strongly now after going through what I’ve been through and continue too, last...

Was on here 2016 when I discovered my partner was using porn. An icon was left on my computer the one we use at work together, he tried to deny it then and I nearly walked away but he convinced me to stay. So I have had bread crumbs since that time but I know he uses Air play and screen share...

Hi all, for the last few years I've had trouble with spam emails, I still get them but nothing like the ones I used to get a lot was penis enlargement and ruskie girls and foreign girls looking for love !! WELL since I have bought his behavior to light and he's quit, I receive none if it, now is...

Hi I am new on here, been dealing with this for a few weeks now, not the first time but hopefully the last as its a deal breaker for me, Ive given chances and this is IT!!  Ive suspected it for awhile but like a lot of you on here you just want them to be the man they need to be honest and above...