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  1. Gabe Deem

    How Shall We Escape?

    Congrats on your progress, Phineas! I enjoy reading your reflections and life lessons as you navigate this broken world. You're a great man. Thanks for being here and for being an inspiration to others.
  2. Gabe Deem


    Congrats on 90 days, @Sangiha! That is incredible. Don't lose heart, many have taken longer (including myself) to recover. Continue to focus on living a healthy balanced life, and be patient with reboot process. Remember: 1) recovery isn't linear. 2) there is always hope. 3) Celebrate this win...
  3. Gabe Deem

    Very likely to have a weird combination of venous leakage with pied. (25)

    So glad to hear you’re in a better place mentally and seeing improvement, Jeks! Keep truckin’ one day at a time 💪🏼
  4. Gabe Deem

    Will I be able to MO without P normally?

    Hey @iagarain, there is no for sure answer to this question and each individual rebooter has to decide what is best for them. With that said, you may find the following answer from The Basics Of Rebooting helpful: "To masturbate, or not to masturbate, that is the question" As stated, we have...
  5. Gabe Deem

    New study - “Social Anxiety, Pornography Use, and Loneliness: A Meditation Analysis”

    Doctoral dissertation - "Social Anxiety, Pornography Use, and Loneliness: A Mediation Analysis" - From abstract: Important to point out that a majority of 70% were married or had a life partner. The average age of subjects was 37.
  6. Gabe Deem

    Long flatline and PIED

    Hey @Sangiha, First, congrats on 81 days! That's awesome 🙌 Second, yes, feeling little to no libido and like you have a "dead penis" is extremely common among rebooters. We call this the "flatline." I suggest watching my flatline video discussing just about everything I can say on the...
  7. Gabe Deem

    NEW Q&A VIDEO: Chaser Effect, Anxiety, Rewiring, Favorite Quotes and More!

    What's up Nation! Just posted a new vid on Reboot Nation's YouTube channel answering questions from my Patreon supporters. Topics covered in this video include: - Anxiety and fear of being stuck in the flatline. - Tips for rebooting in a relationship. - Impact of video games during the...
  8. Gabe Deem

    Website Update Coming Soon!

    What's up everyone!? We are in the process of doing some much needed updates to the forum  8) I'll be tweeting out any important updates on Reboot Nation's twitter account @Reboot_Nation If there will be any downtime, I will post on this thread, and send out a message to members to give...
  9. Gabe Deem

    NEW Q&A VIDEO: Porn During Covid, Myth of "90" Days, Performance Anxiety & More

    What's up RN, Just posted a new Q&A video answering questions from my Patreon supporters. This one is relevant as I dig into: Porn during the pandemic How lockdown affected my mental health The myth of "90" days to recover Despair during a long flatline And more. Here is the link...
  10. Gabe Deem

    MOVED: Finding out about Husband advice

    This topic has been moved to Partners of Rebooters and Addicts.
  11. Gabe Deem

    Reboot Q&A Video: Cold Showers, Meditation, Flatline, Performance Anxiety..

    Hey Nation, I just posted a new Q&A video to the Reboot Nation YouTube channel that answers questions I received from our Patreon supporters. The topics include: Tips to help with the flatline Tips for performance anxiety If you can masturbate without porn fantasy Do pro-porn arguments have...
  12. Gabe Deem

    MOVED: Ksafe (A very helpful tool if you're a bad PMO addict)

    This topic has been moved to Porn Addiction .
  13. Gabe Deem

    MOVED: My PIED journal. Age 28

    This topic has been moved to Ages 20-29.
  14. Gabe Deem

    Why You Relapse (even when you don't see ANY benefit to porn use) VIDEO

    Impaired decision making... the addiction related brain change known as hypofrontality, where over time addicts develop weaker executive control in the pre-frontal cortex. Once this happens, we begin to "justify" our porn use, and choose temporary pleasure over our long-term goals. Some people...
  15. Gabe Deem

    Interview with Matt Fradd Monday 11/23/20

    Hey Nation, An interview I did with Matt Fradd recently will go up on his popular YouTube channel (and podcast Pints with Aquinas) this upcoming Monday morning if anyone is interested in giving it a listen and showing some support! I wasn't my sharpest that morning as I had a very rough...
  16. Gabe Deem

    Video on Taking Viagra and Other Sex Drugs During a Reboot

    Hey Nation, When I was going through recovery as an otherwise healthy young 23 year old dude, I was so confused about why I couldn't get an erection for sex. So, I tried Viagra and Cialis, and to my dismay, they didn't work. As I learned the neuroscience of sexual conditioning and how porn...
  17. Gabe Deem

    The Biggest Mistake Addicts Make (NEW VIDEO)

    What?s up y?all! Just posted a new vid to hopefully motivate you to keep pushing forward even if it?s painful and uncomfortable. You?ll get through it. Focus on what you want, and let your past push you forward rather than pull you back. Much love.
  18. Gabe Deem

    SITE MAINTENANCE TONIGHT! Possible Downtime.

    We are going to be doing some forum software updates tonight. The site might experience some downtime over the next couple of hours. Follow @Reboot_Nation on Twitter for updates if the site goes down.
  19. Gabe Deem

    How to Quit Porn and Rewire With a Partner: Reboot relationship advice (video)

    One of the most common mistakes rebooters make in my opinion is they focus too much on NOT WATCHING PORN and just sitting around waiting to turn into superman/superwomen, even if they have little to no real life sexual experiences. I think many rebooters, especially those who grew up with...