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  1. Blondie

    Flatline stories...please!

    Hey @Crackers1, although I completely understand the depression and anxiety of not knowing what's going on with you man downstairs (I've been there!) I agree with @TryingHarder that it's better to focus on your mental and physical health at this point in the game. That is what will carry you...
  2. Blondie

    Porn is not an option

    My pleasure, that book is great.
  3. Blondie

    Another story - probably the same as everyone else

    Thank you Sir. Yes, it really is crazy when you stop to think about it. Not only does porn mess up our views about women but our views about ourselves as well. A double whammy! Garbage in garbage out. Best to you and your conversations with your therapist and wife.
  4. Blondie

    Finally sick and tired of being sick and tired

    Well, don't beat yourself up about it too much. I've been there, probably still am in some regards. The fact of the matter is, you can't shame yourself out of this habit. You can't do it for a woman (or a future woman!) nor for God (I tried!) or for how bad the industry treats women and men. At...
  5. Blondie

    Another story - probably the same as everyone else

    You have this @GBS. Bless you brother!
  6. Blondie

    Starting again

    Hey @searching4good. I know it's easy to feel this way, but everyone here is on their own journey, and the only person you need to compare yourself with is yourself. Obviously easier said than done, but it is true. You're doing a great and noble thing, don't ever forget that! You got this.
  7. Blondie

    Porn is not an option

    Been thinking this morning concerning what I've been writing about the last few days, and I just wanted to clarify something. I don't mean to say us men don't have feelings, nor that we shouldn't necessarily share them at key moments (like here for example or in our relationships), just that...
  8. Blondie

    Finally sick and tired of being sick and tired

    Nice job @FreedomFromTheStruggle_11. Yes it's not very easy reading over there, but it's very necessary. Sometimes we need a slap in the face, and a jolt of reality, and the truth will often do that to you. It's wise as you said to fix yourself now, because you definitely don't want to bring...
  9. Blondie

    Vomiting thoughts-Journey to Healing?

    I like this solution @Sammyjo. I've had to learn to do this myself, even just in normal conversations. Sometimes I get back home and the Lady wants to talk about my day or hers, however, I often just don't feel like talking at the moment, even if nothing is wrong, so I've learned how to say...
  10. Blondie

    Porn is not an option

    Nice! Every couple should have a King Richard discussion. I love it !!👑 Let me know how that goes @Sammyjo!
  11. Blondie

    36, PIED, new plan

    Welcome back King Logic! You can do this!
  12. Blondie

    Finally, I'm doing this…

    👍 👍 Thou art a monk indeed.
  13. Blondie

    Porn is not an option

    Day 373 Great comments gentlemen, @First_step_thousand_miles, @Escapeandnevercomeback That's a good example as well. I'm definitely not trying to get into politics here, because this place isn't for that, nor would I want it to be, but yes, men and women are entirely different. This...
  14. Blondie

    20 Something Reboot

    Let it roar!!
  15. Blondie

    Porn is not an option

    Day 372 Thanks @searching4good, that made my day yesterday. Keep on crushing it yourself man. Porn is never the answer. @First_step_thousand_miles: Thanks man, all truth! Yes it's a crazy time to live as a man. We're told all the world's problems are because of us, and we're practically made...
  16. Blondie

    Starting again

    9 days @searching4good! All truth.
  17. Blondie

    Amor Fati (Recovery Journal)

    Keep fighting the good fight @Jswizzle, this happens. Never forget, you're not the guy you were 10 months ago, you've only slipped a few days out of 10 months! Learn from it, and keep on moving.
  18. Blondie

    I lost my Gf because of the Flatline😔

    I'm sorry to hear this @Scorpio1990, I really am. I want you to know, if you continue with this reboot, life WILL get better for you and your dick WILL work again, but I know that doesn't change how this moment feels. Best to you man. Blondie
  19. Blondie

    I will make it -- Looking forward to taking my life back

    Rock on. Yes, the process is definitely not linear. It's a two step forward one step backwards type of thing. Every step back will test your resolve, and every step forward you'll see a little more light.
  20. Blondie

    Porn is not an option

    Thank you @Phineas 808.