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    A Poll For the Older Guys here

    Admin - I hope this post is ok, if not, please take it down. My husband has mentioned on a few occasions that the is a bit concerned that maybe he thinks about sex too much, "especially for his age". I found a study of college students on the topic here...
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    Looking for thoughts from those in recovery

    Is there a "normal(ish)" amount of time men think about sex? I can't remember exactly what I read (many years ago), AND P probably wasn't taken into consideration at the time it was written, but it was said that men have a sexual thought (the average was pretty specific) X number of times per...
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    Increased Blood Pressure During Recovery?

    I've read about the many withdrawl symptoms when one stops P, I am wondering if it can increase blood pressure? Has anybody experienced this? It kind of makes sense when you look at the brain chemicals involved when one views P.
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    Brain Chemicals During Recovery Question

    I recall skimming through a few different posts talking about brain chemicals during recovery. I can't recall who it was, but they seemed to have a pretty thorough knowledge of it. Husband hasn't looked a P or subs since April. Sometimes his "junk" works (sometimes as quick a 2x in 2 hours)...
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    Book - Worthy of Her Trust

    Someone mentioned this book as a helpful read. Wondering if any have read it. I've read mixed reviews on it. Some saying it was a Godsend and others saying it puts the work/blame back on the partner of the addict. Looking for ways to rebuild the trust without having to babysit or stalk him...
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    Book Suggestion for all

    Hello all, I hope all is going well. My husband and I have been reading books together, his latest book choice is a book called Atomic Habits by James Clear. I’m only two chapters in but I think you all might find it helpful. The title does not reflect habits that are explosive, but rather how...
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    Vomiting thoughts-Journey to Healing?

    "Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, 'Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?' Jesus answered, 'I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. " But also, how about when the woman was about to be stoned for committing...
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    Monitoring software

    Wondering if anybody had used accountable2you. How is the tracking and is it safe to use? We have mostly apple products, looks like they have more recently come out with IOS platforms - does it work well?
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    Covanent eyes (etc.) question

    My husband as an ipad and iphone provided by his employer and is concerned his employer will detect covenant eyes or other similar apps on his devices, also concerned about these apps being able to access private company data. Can anyone provide me with more information on this?
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    Tech Help

    Partner of addict here, doing what I need to do to regain some sort of sanity...He handed over his Ipad without me asking for it - completely wiped of course. I need to know what I am REALLY dealing with here, not just what he's willing to tell me to "get me off his case". Is there a way to...
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    2 Questions for those using the Reboot program

    Hi All, I have been married for 32 years to a wonderful man who like many have an issue with porn. This is round 3 of quitting. He is an EXTREMELY strong minded individual (in the sense when he sets his mind on something he gets it done quickly and without fail, with the exception of the porn...