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It is good to have open communication with her. However, you should have someone you can talk to about you, your progress and why you turn to porn. A counselor that understands this is best.

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The information is getting out there! Disappointed Gabe and his efforts were not mentioned. This site with support not mentioned either. But porn addiction is being brought out. https://nypost.com/2023/04/20/porn-ruined-lives-of-young-men-facing-erectile-dysfunction/

So knowing how my views are received, I will comment on pics etc. For me it was the decline of his relationship with me that made me view it as cheating. Our intimate life took a decided nose dive. He chose the things he looked at and his hand over me. Thinking about them over me. To me it...

GBS I read your thread and I see where I could have been as a wife. I felt the pain, the whys, the what the hell do I do nows. Most of us that have had to deal with an addicted other have had the same or similar experiences. What caused me to stay and work on our marriage? I loved him. No...

Do you and Mrs share the same counselor? How long have you been in counseling? Is there no talk of a joint session so the two of you could communicate with guidance? I would think this is warranted after the tremendous passage of time.

I am well, what do you need help with? We are here to listen, provide resources etc. Please reach out.

@ImBroken good to hear from you. I think sharing your recovery is inspiring and so truthful. I agree with the it’s not about you misnomer. When we were pre-porn I was his sole outlet for sex. There were were little signs sort of undetected by me. I felt we were solid. ages were 33 me 29...

When my husband and I had sex it was eyes open 👀 every time. It helped me and him reconnect.

Your day yesterday sounded awesomely fun! We have had no snow yet🙁,! But I am hopeful! Connection to family is key I think to refocus on what is important. Just being an SO I can tell that when I feel thoughts of the past, picking up my grandson and heading to the park really takes them...

Jellybean, Yes I have been where you are. I have felt pretty much everything you have felt. All of your words are familiar. And if you have read for a while through SO threads you can see the screwed up bag of feelings,anger,compassion, worry that we all feel. Your feelings are real. Do not...

@ImBroken when those words came at the end of Madeoff I actually backed the video up so that I got the exact words. Both sentences. Why? Because when my husband and I got married, I had told him and continued to tell him things no one ever knew about me and my thoughts. I ran toward the end...

I just thought now that some have read this I would tell you the documentary. It was at the end of Madoff: The Monster of Wall St. So it referred to people that trusted him with their life savings. I just wanted you to know it was not a psychologist, or people impacted by porn. I felt though...

Great news to hear!

My husband and I did the every other day some sort of intimacy during our figuring out phase. It helped a lot. I always felt like I needed that.

Something I use in my work is people text Each other. It takes voice tone out. And you communicate. My husband sends me a text every morning. Sometimes it is hooray for hump day. And then we have F#[email protected] it Friday and many more. Communicate even this opens a door

There are a lot partners struggling with D day or how they found out the important person in their life used porn for what ever reason. And in my threads and many postings, I have outlined my experiences from discovery to the present. A documentary I watched yesterday day had this quote and it...

@ImBroken it always humbles me when I help someone. That means the walk I have been is not without purpose. For SOs there are not a lot of resources to access. And if there are any, there is a cost, and they very greatly. Is it co-dependence? Betrayal trauma? Depression? Bat shit crazy...

Thanks! I enjoy seeing us all!

Thanks! It is interesting to see us all!