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    What does 'normal' sex look like?

    Hi all, I'm currently rebooting, no p no m. I'm about D30 no fap. I'm single and so I didn't really decide to say no S. I met a girl last night and there's a good chance we might have S. I found myself fantasing about what it might be like. I wondered if my P fetishes etc might resurface...
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    Does everyone flatline?

    Hi all, I'm about 3 weeks no fap and 1 month porn free. I'm still in the horny phase where I think about sex etc and I haven't had a flatline. I'm curious - does everyone get one or is the most hardcore users? I would consider myself a moderate user, not as severe as many cases, but severe...
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    Overcoming hypofrontality

    29 year old male, giving some background on my P usage in the past. At the age of 13 or 14 I became aware you could look at naked women on the internent. Thankfully I didn't have my own computer. Then at the age of 15 or 16 I got a smartphone and occasionally looked at P. Thankfully I didn't...
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    Is M in and of itself problematic or is P the problem

    I'm new to this website and I think it's great. P is a huge issue, as well as any other kind of stiumulus we use. Is abstaining from M completely, instead of just avoiding P, useful too? There doesn't seem to be a consensus on this.
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    question about non pornographic stimuli and also fantasy stimuli

    Hi all, i'm off porn. I have a question about: 1. Nonporn stimuli: Is it bad to look at naked pictures for masturbating, or even just pictures of scantily clad women? Will all of this inhibit recovery? 2. I found when masturbating my brain often tries to move back to a pornographic stimulus...