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    Fapping With A Partner

    Yes, I feel letting the partner do it helps in that it kind-of breaks off the dependency of using my hand to get aroused. I'm just trusting the process and continuing. almost 40 days porn and masturbation free! I get these moments when I stroke my dick and just feel happy when it gets hard, but...
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    Long-searched cure for ED found here in 185 days

    Thanks. And I believe you are right, a good diet, exercise and sleep should be more than enough. Almost two weeks and I'm having erections all night. Feeling positive. Still not sure about holding off dating as a lot of my partners are asking to meet up, haha! I'll try to commit to 3 month...
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    Long-searched cure for ED found here in 185 days

    Your last sentence is an ultimate goal. Allow me to reiterate: Congratulations! Last question--do pills and supplements work? Should I be taking any?
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    Long-searched cure for ED found here in 185 days

    You may well be the luckiest man alive for having such a supporting, loving, patient, wife. This is actually another thing I'm annoyed by--having to lay down the whole situation for every single date I go on. Being in the company of an understanding, constant partner is really helpful in that it...
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    Long-searched cure for ED found here in 185 days

    Thank you my friend. As you said, I have nothing else to lose (or do.) That said, what is and isn't permitted during this period. I'm already one week in. Obviously no porn, masturbating or edging. No sexting or Instagram peeking, etc., but what about real life interaction? When should I start...
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    Long-searched cure for ED found here in 185 days

    Such an inspiring, brave story. Congratulations, brother. I have been suffering ED ever since my first sexual encounter, some 10 years ago. It's been the case ever since. Not once have I been able to get an erection without masturbating, no matter how aroused I was. Foreplay, BJs, caresses, you...
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    Supplements that could help during reboot?

    I'm doing NoFap (no porn, no masturbation) but would like to start dating to help my brain reconnect with real life partners and real intimacy. However, having PIED makes it a bit embarassing and I would like have your opinions on what has helped you get good, long-lasting erections. I have...
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    How's The Flatline While Dating?

    Hi family, I was wondering what to expect when dating while with ED and going through what I hope is a flatline. I am using help (Viagra) but to my dismay, I still manage to go soft. Started with 50mg and had a good result even though I still went soft. Decided to up the dosage, and I had even...
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    How Do You Measure Success?

    Hi, For those of us out of the tunnel, how did you know you were cured from ED ? Is it an I-Woke-Up-One-Day-And-My-Erection-Is-Back type of thing or more of a progressive recovery? How to measure success or progress? How to know things are looking up? What are the indicators? And once cured...
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    New Discovery

    A few days ago, I read that regular kegels could cause ED as they may tighten the P muscles and prevent blood circulation. Reverse kegels were recommandes in this case. This morning, upon waking up with a regular morning wood, I started playing with myself. I suddenly realized that I was...
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    Fapping With A Partner

    As part of my journey to quit porn and recover from ED, I have decided to start dating with help from pills instead of waiting until after the 90 days reboot no PMO. But seems like even with the help of pills (5mg of Tadalafil) I lose my erection and only manual stimulation (using MY hands)...
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    Is it performance anxiety?

    Having never had actual (penetrative) sex before (my first time got abruptly interrupted by me losing my erection), I feel this is something I possibly might be suffering from. During the dates I have had, I noticed each time that my partner was really into it, enjoying the moment, being...
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    PIED or ED? How to tell?

    After many streaks (and relapses) under my belt, I feel like stepping out of the battlefield for a second and do some introspection. My apologies for the lengthy post. First, some backstory; I will try to be as concise and objective as possible. I am a 34 yo healthy man who has been suffering...
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    33 yo gay virgin with PIED. Please help...

    Hi All, I have suffered from ED for as long as my first sexual encounter (I didn't really give it too much thought then, as the bigger picture of what was happening was too overwhelming... I was 21.) Later, I started to notice that my erections weren't normal. Sometimes, as soon as I put on...
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    Not sure if PIED or just ED

    Hello, I am a 30 yo man suffering from ED. The first time this happened was during my first ever sexual experience (I was about 22 at the time) where I suddently lost my erection right before penetration. I was too young to understand what was it at that time, and it didn't seem that big of a...
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