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Hello every1! Hope you're doing great out there. I'm 3 years porn free, but still seem to be experiencing long term effects from the abuse. To my question - anybody experience low libido / low interest in sex with a newfound partner? I do recently, and can't really come up with an explanation...

ey man. 5 weeks in sounded amazing, how's the status now? Btw. one question - why no rewiring with real ppl? Can be quite the experience I think!

yes, we're not. That's why the choice matters all the more! And it's one to retake everyday

Yeha man, its all about that Shift in Perspektive and thus Direktion. Your daily choices Put you on a road, it's Up to you to decide what Kind of Road or path you find yourself on. Keep it Up!

Quick Update: After my Last Post I went to africa, on a solo Bike Trip for 4 months. Had some really shaping experiences and - I am Sure - learned a lot of stuff + General skills (Handling myself in difficult situations, how to Deal with intense fear/ troubles, finding a solution for anything...

hey man, how'd it turn out?

Hey everybody, I am writing in a state of craving for P. Woke up today in the morning with a hardon, had a sexy dream about my ex gf where I was penetrating her. Did not cum or anything, but wound up masturbating a bit later. No P, some fantasizing. Now while I dont think it is a bad thing to...

How are you keepin up patoosh?

Hey DbD! Yep, I had PIED and performance anxiety (the latter is not completely gone yet). I first tried to have sex when I was 19-20 with ~10 different girls, never could get it up. I felt ashamed of myself and generally the whole situation. I knew the women that were with me also felt sth was...

Good that you're keeping. Yes, it is definitely some kind of dopamine release, also the constant swiping delivers exactly that. But hey, one step at a time. Abstaining from P is already great.

Hey man, sounds great. I always just sit in silence and let the thoughts come and go. Once you've got a routine in meditating, it gets easier! I'd say you don't have to silence your mind but acknowledge the thoughts that pop up, and then let go. Sounds easier than it is, I know, but I think the...

Hey Guys! Just thought about the progress I've made since abstaining from P - I started in march 2020, so more than 2.5 years without P. Maybe this can serve as a motivation for those struggling with P(MO). What did I achieve? - completed a master program with excellence - gained a lot of Work...

Hey Durden, how are you keepin up? I know this tinder thing, used to do it sometimes as well. Not sure what I was looking for, maybe pics or just the thought of being intimate with those girls even though I know I want a real connection. Keep grinding man, you can kick this habit!

Keep going Dantes! I like that you're meditating, can really help to be aware of your actions (and maybe react when you're about to do sth stupid, that is, view P.). All the best to you. Frank

Dude, You can do it! Sounds like you're in the beginning of your 20s. Some guys on here have used P for more than 20 years (or even more). You're lucky to have identified the problem. Now you can act on it!It's never too late, especially in your case. You've got plenty of time, but also some...

Aunque en estos momentos no parece, vas a mejorar. A lo mejor tienes que aceptar y dejarte llevar por anciedad. Aceptar (y no rechazar) pero a la vez hacer cosas buenas para ti mismo, mantener un nivel de actividad, meditar, tomar duchas frias, hacer deporte, leer, ver amigos etc. Tu puedes!

Hey man sounds good! Play it cool, be open and honest about it and embrace it. That's the best you can do. Also, libido + sex drive and hard erections will come around man, just a matter of time. Keep pushin!

Libido + sex drive is back all of a sudden. Also feels like I have blueballs. Energy is up!

Hey man, 23 years of PMO sounds crazy (I've had maybe half and that's already a lot). How are you doing right now? Keep up the good work and follow your path!

Hey man, are you off P(MO) now? If not, start immediately! Sounds like you always jumped back to P when after those periods of abstinence. If you want to get to the point of having great erections and amazing sex, you gotta quit P for good. Do you have someone to rewire with?