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Your Brain on Porn is actually what got him considering that he *might* have a problem. That and the used of the word "hypersexualized" by a therapist wondering why I was attracted to such men.

I didn't read Fappy's post, which appears to be Fine By Me. I don't need somebody blaming me for Murg's problem. Thank you, Sliced. I was given a couple of books on Codependency which I am reading and digesting. It rings true, for me. At one point Murg told me that if I gave him all the...

Hi, I'm Patience, and I'm married to a guy who likes to watch porn. Note I did NOT say "Porn addict", as he refuses to believe he has a problem in the addiction realm. However I believe we can agree he has an issue with LYING about his porn use. He knows I don't like it, for many reasons, so he...

So, what I wrote was too long for this forum, so I copied to a Word doc., and have attached. I think I may need some slapping around. Please help me. I'm new, I'm "Patience" and I'm married to "Murgatroyd", who has not been exactly forthcoming about his porn use. OK, I tried to attach a...

Hi Marbeck - please visit www.chumplady.com for support on leaving a cheater (and gaining a life). She takes no prisoners. Wishing you all the determination you need to move forward. Patience

Peaceful, there is also an online blog that has helped me with clarity a GREAT deal, but bear in mind her advice is nearly always to leave the cheater. www.chumplady.com With love and care - Patience

Hi Peaceful - I am new here, as well. I want you to know that you are heard, that I understand....because I am experiencing the same emotions. I am 61, been married to Murgatroyd (who is on here) for 29 years, together for 32. I have no advice to offer, but can tell you my story. The...

Thank you, Gracie for sharing your story. I will share mine. I am having a tough day today, dealing with a bit of PISD (Post Infidelity Stress Disorder). My husband is currently seeing a therapist, for which I am thankful. Music is very important in my life (pro musician), and I understand...

New, here. This is Murgatroyd's wife, Patience. I do not know if I am *allowed* to add to the story or not, but feel there are some key things missing from the journal. *Yes, we have sex. Nearly every day. However, he only has an orgasm maybe a couple of times per week. We stop when it...