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  1. Oscar40

    Dating during reboot - Is it Okay or no way?

    We are definitely all different. My case: me, in my case, the best thing that could happen to me was spending my entire reboot alone, without partners and without any sex. It would have caused me a lot of anxiety to have gone through the reboot as a couple. Fortunately I was single the whole...
  2. Oscar40

    success

    That's great. I am very pleased. Me too, now, I'm completely fine. The only thing is that I still kept the files out there (without seeing them) but I already deleted them all.
  3. Oscar40

    Dating during reboot - Is it Okay or no way?

    Ok. That´ s good.
  4. Oscar40

    NO pmo and even no sex with wife also, if we can perform after 2wks needed to complete recovery??plz suggest anyone..

    Hello. I'm sorry to tell you, but if you keep having sex, your sexual response will never improve. I suggest you read this case: https://yourbrainrebalanced.com/forum/index.php?threads/rewiring-is-a-myth-must-read-for-people-3-years-without-porn-and-still-flatlining.117962/ In some cases...
  5. Oscar40

    Why does his problem leave me feeling so worthless?

    That's great. How happy I am to know this. It's good that he's already responding physically. The important thing is that you never use that crap (I mean porn) again. Congratulations. I am very happy if your relationship with him is improving in that aspect.
  6. Oscar40

    Dating during reboot - Is it Okay or no way?

    This is true, however, this applies but only to mild cases of PIED. We do not know if the person we are advising here is a severe case of PIED, for this reason, it seems prudent that we advise a restart in totally hard mode (no sex, no orgasm, no partner, no nothing, total abstinence ). I don't...
  7. Oscar40

    Dating during reboot - Is it Okay or no way?

    Understand. However, a person will notice much more improvements in their sexual response if they perform a "hard mode" as it is often called. The truth, sadly, for most rebooters, the results have been negative when they've been having sex during rebooting, because remember most rebooters'...
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    Dating during reboot - Is it Okay or no way?

    Absolutely. I want to clarify something: A reboot is really a complete break from anything having to do with sex for at least 6 months in a row. If within 6 months your body wants it, that means "some" sex may be possible. Unfortunately, your porn addiction has tired and left your body and...
  9. Oscar40

    30-60 dias sin pornografia

    Al respecto de esto: El reinicio precisamente hace esto. El reinicio se trata más bien de "calmarse" por decirlo de alguna manera. Aparentemente, es como sentirse "asexual", sin embargo, no es así, esto es solo una falsa impresión.
  10. Oscar40

    Why does his problem leave me feeling so worthless?

    Yes. It is quite harmful for men. Depending on the age that you started watching porn, the speed of healing is possible. For example my case: I have made many reboot attempts in my life and always, around day 40 or 54 or 60 (always before 90 days) I felt a great improvement in my erections just...
  11. Oscar40

    We made REMOJO free

    That good. Definitely in the United States there is an entire academy around this topic of addiction to pornography. On the contrary, here in my country when I talk to (even) sexual health professionals about porn addiction they look at me as someone who is making something up. Here in my...
  12. Oscar40

    Rewire

    Hello. It is very normal to get tired or for the libido to drop at times. Perhaps you have already had many sexual relations with her and it is very normal for passion and desire to "die" over time, and even more so if you have been together for a long time. In my opinion, this has nothing to...
  13. Oscar40

    Fetish induced ED — Would love some advice from people who've got through it

    And whether it was a real erectile dysfunction (that is the case) is also irrelevant. Do you know what I did the day I found out I had erectile dysfunction? Answer: I started laughing at myself. I laughed and laughed at my own erectile dysfunction (which thankfully was PIED and was cured long...
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    Fetish induced ED — Would love some advice from people who've got through it

    Until you leave behind your feelings of guilt and shame "absurd" you will not be calm, and I am sorry to tell you but it is the truth: the reboot will not help in this regard. Rebooting will not fix these types of issues, as these types of issues are underlying and have nothing to do with PMO at...
  15. Oscar40

    RECOVERY PIED START

    This is nonsense assumptions man. Libido constantly fluctuates regardless of anything else. That has nothing to do with the reboot. If so, then that would mean that people who have never been addicted to porn would hold "a very long, erect pole 24/7 all the time and that's not the case at all...
  16. Oscar40

    Fetish induced ED — Would love some advice from people who've got through it

    @WestCoast For your information: Liking, or being attracted to certain types of women (whether they are white, black, curvy or slim) is not a fetish. For your information, almost 78% of men are attracted to women "with curves" as you tell them, and however, we do not see this as a problem...
  17. Oscar40

    How do you explain porn addiction to someone...

    If you get it into your head that "it's hard" to quit porn, then you'll never quit. Be careful how you are thinking.
  18. Oscar40

    Fetish induced ED — Would love some advice from people who've got through it

    That's not fetishes. That's just taste. For example my case: I have always liked all kinds of women. I can like a woman with curves and also perfectly, I have liked thin women. It seems to me that YOU has a rather incorrect view of what your tastes are and that is what keeps you so confused...
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    RECOVERY PIED START

    Hello: It seems to me that you are assuming this in a very incorrect way. Why ? Response from me: The reboot is not about "obsessing" over nonsense like libido, boners, dreams, morning boners, blah blah blah... etc... The reboot is so much more than pointless worries like the ones you're...
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