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    Sex: PE, and orgasm felt like nothing?!

    Hello, I've been more or less off PMO for 2 years now - e.g. a few 100+ day streaks prior to my current one - and feel like myself healed. I recently had sex for the first time in like 6 months and had a couple questions/concerns from it... I had no issue getting it up when the time came :)...
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    Relapse after 300 days - staying clean

    TL;DR - solid 301 day reboot with good signs of healing, but one slip-up has led to a few chaser PMOs. Hoping I am still OK? Beware any slip-ups, even for those in well-established reboots. I'm optimistic I haven't done much damage, but it was so easy to fall back briefly into porn. As I've...
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    Successful sex post reboot first time ? PE? Not fantastic?

    Hi all, so I just had ?successful? sex for the first time, on first attempt, after nearly 6 months in a reboot (no pmo, only O's from about a dozen wet dreams, only arousal from the odd facebook or instagram photos but not really seeking and not acting on it ie not touching. I had a couple...
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    Force to rewire

    I know I need to rewire. But I feel so ?meh? when it comes to talking, flirting, pursuing - whatever you want to call it - with girls. And I don?t think it?s a ?flatline? because I?m 100+ days in to this reboot and am definitely constantly on the ?lookout? for cute women. It?s just the actual...
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    Semen leakage - a good thing?

    Why is semen leakage considered a bad thing and thus its stopping included as a sign of 'back to normal' in reboot (http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/how-do-i-know-when-im-back-to-normal) Does semen leakage here refer to 'overactive' precum or is it something else? I ask bc I am 100+ days into...
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    Tinder and wet dream?

    Hello all, I?m 90 + days into a latest solid reboot. No touch except for periodic minimal test to sensation only and no artificial stimuli except for stuff like randomly stumbling across bikini pics on sports blogs or facebook feed. Been feel good with MW pretty much any day I wake up no alarm...
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    Strange M test

    Hi guys, I just tested M to sensation only (just slow stroke, no fantasy, to achieve erection then stop) - my only time touching of the reboot - as I've done periodically once every 3-4 weeks or so (I'm 75 days in now) (I know, not good to test, but have been feeling good in other regards - eg...
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    Danger of enlarged prostate?

    Beyond a certain point in a reboot is it best to reincorporate M (to sensation-only, of course, no P) in order to ejaculate and prevent buildup associated with potential enlarging prostate (prostatitis)? I have heard that urologists suggest once weekly M (that is, if no sex - preferable - is...
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    Precum quickly??

    Lately when I?ve had some spontaneous, random sexual thoughts ? eg about girls I know or see out in the bar, not porn-related ? I?ve been getting semi to full erections. I think this is a good sign, maybe libido. It?s not like I?m forcing myself to think them, just come on naturally. BUT the...
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    What is normal libido?

    I'm just over a month into my latest PMO reboot. I can definately sense my "radar" super tuned to spotting good lookin girls --- like at the gym or in a club for example. But still the conception of girls in my mind feels sort of foreign. Its like i feel normal to look at a cute face or body or...
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    Is this healed?

    I'm curious from peoples own experience if I maybe healed??? I went 56 days PMO reboot (though with a little too much "testing" - M sensation only to the point of achieving erection, then stop - and Facebook pic surfing), relapsed for a couple days, went a really clean 21 days, relapsed one...
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    How long does a normal erection last?

    How long does a healthy, fully-functioning, rebooted, normal erection last? If you M to sensation only, once you let go, how durable is it before it drops down? I allowed myself to "test" today in my reboot to see progress (doing this as little as possible, like 2 week increments minimum). By...
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    What does a wet dream during a reboot mean?

    Hello, What are your experiences/what do you make of a ?wet dream? in a reboot? I read this page (http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/wet-dreams) and see that guys interpret them differently. I just had what might have been the first in my life, after a 56 day streak - a week of relapse/chaser -...
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    Will I be able to get it up?

    Hello everyone, I am new to this world and would REALLY appreciate your advice and input. I?ve tried to keep this post as concise as possible. I realize this is lengthy, but I think as a reader you will appreciate the clarity and full detailed info. To provide a bit of background, I am a 23...
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