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Thats not a CSAT talking, it's my wife....

One year today... But things aren't exactly great. Can't find a CSAT that takes my insurance, and that is one of her conditions in the "Ultimatum". She (my wife) claims I have made no progress, since I still get tempted from time to time. For some reason she feels that even being tempted at all...

Tomorrow will be 8 months... YAY !!!

Greetings TipToe, and welcome to the club. Still trying to figure it out? Yeah, me too, and if I live to be 120 I'll still be trying to figure it out. It's when we stop trying to figure it out that we have thrown in the towel, so keep trying... Man, all the things your wife said, my wife has...

Are any of you married guys wives members of a betrayed spouse facebook group(s)? If so, How do you feel about the advice they give?

Hmmmm.... I am actually in a position to give you a semi informed answer. I am a composer. I write music, I construct videos to accompany this music, and I spend a LOT of my time online, either working my Youtube channel or culling stills and video clips to construct my videos. Then I spend a...

I'm good

Kind of down in the mouth today, but... I am well beyond the stage wherein a bit of depression brings thoughts of regression. Not a consideration. Being bummed out is a normal thing for humans to experience. As long as it doesn't become a permanent state of mind it's nothing to fear. Persevere...

7.5 months sober.. All is well.... The slow wheels of change keep grinding. Although the improvement rate increases very slowly, the results are still measurable, and noticeable. I AM a lucky man.

Mornin'... Steve, former porn junkie, seven and a half months sober. Felt like a royal shitheel for the past two days. I try not to dwell on the negative effects my P use had on all concerned, but sometimes reminders pop up. Be they from outside influences or someone close, they pop up...

Afternoon guys. Just woke from a nap. The wife had messaged me some excerpts from a thread on the betrayed spouse group she frequents about a woman who caught her husband using again and the fallout associated with. I know my wife lives in fear that I too, will relapse, otherwise she would not...

*******************************************TRIGGER WARNING****************************************** Okay, you guys responded positively to "None the Wiser", my music video which exposes the evil's of porn consumption that we don't see or take into consideration. So... None the Wiser is the 2nd...

Happy Thanks Giving everyone... Ready to stuff myself just like that bird in there in the oven. Persevere Brethren

No worries. I don't feel attacked. I stopped feeling that way quite some time ago. And I never really looked at it, as joepanic also said, as choosing porn over my wife, it was more like a dirty supplement, which I now realize I didn't ever really need, but that of course does not an any way...

Steve. Junkie. 7 months plus porn free. 6:19 AM. Woke early (my sleep patterns are weird). My wife paid me a super compliment yesterday. Made my day/week/month. My wife is "on the spectrum" or as old schoolers put it, she has Asperger Syndrome. It is difficult for spectrumites to compliment...

Stick to your guns then. You have outlined to him the conditions for maintaining a relationship and for all intents and purposes he agreed. My wife set some strict conditions for me on D-Day 2.... There are many many similarities in your situation and my wife's (and thanks, she is a hell of a...

Thanks Homerun. My goal was to put it in perspective.. I hope it helps. Remember the "crappy" feeling it induced, always, but then realize you are beyond it, for you, too, like all of us here, were also a victim of p, now fighting the good fight...

Thank you so much Sammyjo. Hell, I still find it hard to watch and I spent hours upon hours upon hours assembling the research and the graphics. So... It accomplished what I intended.. Thanks again.

Your feelings are quite common to injured spouses / partners of porn addicts. My wife voiced the exact same concern about there being a "porn reel" running in my head while we are having sex. And... There was. My brain was conditioned to feed itself garbage and did not immediately alter that...

Pray... To whom ever you consider your higher power to be. Talk to that power every day. Cry on it's shoulder, and ask it to help you through each minute of each day... Find something else that interests you, ( a hobby or physical activity) and use that as something to focus on aside from your...