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Hey @GBS, thought I’d drop by to say congratulations and well done on getting to 700 days. So sorry to hear about your Dad ❤️

Sorry to hear about your Mother in-laws declining health. Thinking of you as you hit the 500 day milestone today ❤️

@GBS is your Wife curious about the masturbation topic and how you have managed to navigate nearly 500 days without sex & intimacy with her? What’s your thoughts on ‘secretive’ masturbation?

I wonder how she can ever move past that? Ester Perel talks about moving forward after betrayal, as the original relationship is gone, you can’t get it back, and that you are starting a new relationship.

So sorry your still going through this @GBS I listened to an excellent podcast today by Yung Pubelo (pen name) about letting go of the past on Diary of a CEO…… it was so good! Does your Wife meditate???

I agree with @Androg & @joepanic I say the time for patience is over, take the lead, be dominant, own your masculine energy. I wouldn’t ask to Spoon I would just do it….if she rejects it, she rejects it.

My personal opinion & experience is, this is really hard to do if you’re not getting sex & intimacy from a partner. I think there is a place for mastur-dating ourselves, giving ourselves intimacy & pleasure, but it needs to be explored in a healthy mindful way. Don’t be too hard on yourself fella❤️

You shouldn’t feel guilty for asking for intimacy @GBS 😉

This is all really great stuff, so happy for you😊 With regards to your marriage, I walked away from a 17 year relationship because I was no longer attracted to him and desired a more erotic sex life, so I understand your predicament….. my best advice, is to go to Counselling yourself, work on...

Congratulations @GBS sorry I missed the big occasion, I’ve been trying to have some time away from here over the last few weeks. x

Totally agree 💯

You are awesome, just remember that. x

This is absolute GOLD, gave me a good giggle Geebs 😎 That’s cool about the values, I was only thinking about this today when I was sitting alone in a café sipping my flat while and ponder life….. wondering why people have to talk so bloody loud when they are on their mobile phones….. I digress...

What @TypeN said, 💯 Just be your authentic self, trying to work out what other people are thinking, or their responses will drive you crazy and it’s not your problem, their actions are not on you!

Hey fellas, Feeling absolutely crap tonight…. this weekend would have marked 3 years since the man (ex) and I went on our first date….. I knew it was brewing and tonight I couldn’t push the emotions down anymore and after what was a lovely dinner out with my children, I found myself standing...

Soundtrack of the day Paul, your Armor is exercise, it’s your superpower fella. x

Hey Geebs, I like what @Androg is suggesting, you know I have made several suggestions over the last few months, but I understand your fear to offer some affection and intimacy towards her, as you want to respect her boundary. You could go and buy a nice foot product, there's a million...

Also Paul, by stepping away from porn, you are reforming the connection with ‘self’, that’s the most important connection of all😊😊😊

I have also benefited from learning Love Languages, I think it’s something we should all understand and I know it’s changed my relationship with my Mum.

So pleased your doing well😊 Here’s the journal I saw: https://forum.rebootnation.org/index.php?threads/24364/