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    How Shall We Escape?

    Indeed. I find your post somewhat soothing. I am suffering from serious chaser effect due to sex in the last 2 days and resorted to watching nude pics today because I was finding it so hard to control. It didn't go too far beyond that so far but it's tough.
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    How Shall We Escape?

    Phineas, getting down to 120 days in about a month's time is so awesome. I can't wait to get to my 120 days and beyond and hopefully leave PMO behind for the rest of my life.
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    How Shall We Escape?

    kind of makes sense, yeah. Good progress Phineas.
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    How Shall We Escape?

    well done Phineas, I am glad you didn't give in to edging and woke up your wife. Always good to read your journal. It has a calming effect on me for some reason. Please keep posting. Also, why didn't you use the mindfulness technique you taught me? It seems quite useful to me so far.
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    How Shall We Escape?

    I can't like this post enough. I completely agree with this. There are some things in life a man must figure out himself, especially if the danger becomes that disclosing the true circumstances might end up doing more harm than good. Each man knows where they stand in the relationship. If some...
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    How Shall We Escape?

    I can totally relate Phineas. I haven't told my wife of my problems. I know telling her will devastate her and my marriage and my kids life will be ruined too. Better to believe that what she doesn't know won't hurt her, and in the meantime figure out a solution than to tell her and risk losing...
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    How Shall We Escape?

    I set up a counter on my profile as well, makes me feel good to have a large number of days under my belt. Also I don't like resetting the counter, lol
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    How Shall We Escape?

    Quite an inspirational journal phineas and has deinitely motivated me. I also picked up some insights about not fighting the thoughts and urges. I also struggle when something comes in my mind and i try to fight it off, it comes back more forcefully. I am going to try your method of looking at...
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    Flatline and Morning wood

    Hi guys, I am close to 40 days into my reboot and this week (after one lame and one successful attempt at sex last weekend) I noticed that I don't have any desire for sex at all (although I have been quite busy). However I am getting really solid morning woods every day. My question is that...
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    Warning for the peekaboos - Fresh Case Study

    So, I have a thread running in 30-39 subforum but I thought this warning will be pertinent here. I had successful sex on Friday night and had it successful the week before that as well. Now I started getting horny again yesterday and it got to a point where I thought I would just peek at some...
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    Warning for the heedful - Peeking can be disastrous

    So, I have a thread running in 30-39 subforum but I thought this warning will be pertinent here. I had successful sex on Friday night and had it successful the week before that as well. Now I started getting horny again yesterday and it got to a point where I thought I would just peek at some...
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    Whammy raised to the power whammy - The beginning of the Journey

    I recently came across yourbrainonporn and boy I think I may have hit the nail on the head in terms of diagnosing my problem. However its early in the journey but I am hopeful. I am starting this journal here because I am having severe attacks of anxiety. I am not very hard at the moment but I...
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