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Dimitri

Member
Your tricky mind and body during your reboot/ rewiring sessions. They will both try to trick you or just plain fuck with you in general. Like when you're dreaming you might get a dream about watching porn and all of that jazz. It might feel as if you're awake actually at the computer relapsing. Relax because you aren't actually doing anything. You'll realize that when you wake up, but take caution as to not down that path in real life due to a craving from the dream. Like the one I had last night I was dreaming I was watching tv and a porno came on. I try to turn the channel but every channel I switch to is that same channel. Dreams like these for example will make you freak out because you thought you relapsed.

No I didn't fail, just giving you some advice for the day! Stay classy my friends  ;).
 
you are right dimitry....these dreams really are a serious trigger...but we have to remember that we get stronger everytime we resit the urges...we come out stronger for the next urge.Meditation helps too...if done right. Everyone deserves to get over this bullshit.
 

Dimitri

Member
I agree %100 bro, with every bit of knowledge on the subject we have though we all have a much better chance of getting over this smut addiction.
 

Card

Member
One thing that might help with this is to go to bed thinking that you're not going to watch porn if you see it. It's hard to explain, but there was a time when I had little control over my dreams and now I can usually influence them in little ways (it's not even necessarily lucid dreaming, so much as it is having certain things so deep in my subconscious - such as resisting porn - that even in my dreams, I resist).

Hope that makes sense. Good luck with fighting the good fight. :)
 

Viper

Well-Known Member
I hope my dream of ridding myself of porn induced E.D. comes true.
And of course inspire others.
 
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Mart71

Guest
I had a relapsing dream a few days ago. I dreamed about surfing for and downloading my old favorite porn genres. During the dream, I actually thought: "But this is wrong, I want to avoid porn, just downloading it will cause me to PMO, I shouldn't be doing this, I promised myself and my girl not to do it, why am I doing this." When I woke up, I was glad it was just a dream.

For some weird reason, I was dreaming about the downloading part, and not actually watching the porn.... >_< Might have to do with the hunting being more interesting than the actual watching.
 

fugu

Moderator
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Long distance running has been super beneficial for me - makes me sleepy at night and gives you a great runners high during the day! I recommend it to combat sleep and other withdrawal issues.
 

Dimitri

Member
fugu,
I know exactly what you mean when it comes to strenuous exercise to tire your body from watching porn. Now usually during the day I'm out keeping myself busy doing random stuff to lower my chances of beating it to porn. In the evenings I lift some extremely heavy weight to get drained of any energy I might have left.
Mart72,
That's our subconscious trying to trick us into getting that same fix we don't get in our waking life. As for the more enjoyment in downloading part, it all boils down to the aspect of novelty bro. There's soooooo much of that mess out there. That's how we all got hooked in the first place!!!. But good on you for recognizing a weakness! Keep fighting the good fight everyone!
 
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