saintpetersburg
Member
Hi everybody,
I'm a 38 yr old straight guy originally from the UK but now living in a European country. Writing this intro feels extremely weird although I've posted several times so I'm gonna just stick to the facts.
I'm 30 days into my reboot at this point - already a lot of good things happening but I was never a heavy internet user so possibly I don't feel the benefit as strongly as some others here. I also started M pre-internet and have generally been able to function sexually and M without P.
My reasons for doing this are - I want to be more present in sex and to really appreciate sex and making love instead of drifting off somewhere else in my head, I hate the way that porn exploits everyone that comes into contact with it, I don't believe it's possible to have healthy relationships of any kind with women as a viewer of pornography, I haven't had ED but I have had some delayed Ej and that's not cool.
I'm in a relationship that's complicated. I care very much about the girl I'm with and we have pretty good sex.
I have no intention of giving up M but am considering trying hard mode for a period of time to see how I feel as a result but I don't see anything wrong with M in principal.
Ok so this is really kinda factual and dry but I'm gonna come back to this and add more details. I'm actually drunk and tired right now and just wanted to finally put something up here.
I think that this site is an extremely important tool for healing. I've come to the conclusion that the people here have chosen to deal with a problem, the vastness of which is way beyond current cultural perception, and need support. Any trolling in this thread will be ignored and reported. This is not that kind of website. Debate is only helpful as a means to the end of freedom from porn.
Best wishes and my hopes for your success
I'm a 38 yr old straight guy originally from the UK but now living in a European country. Writing this intro feels extremely weird although I've posted several times so I'm gonna just stick to the facts.
I'm 30 days into my reboot at this point - already a lot of good things happening but I was never a heavy internet user so possibly I don't feel the benefit as strongly as some others here. I also started M pre-internet and have generally been able to function sexually and M without P.
My reasons for doing this are - I want to be more present in sex and to really appreciate sex and making love instead of drifting off somewhere else in my head, I hate the way that porn exploits everyone that comes into contact with it, I don't believe it's possible to have healthy relationships of any kind with women as a viewer of pornography, I haven't had ED but I have had some delayed Ej and that's not cool.
I'm in a relationship that's complicated. I care very much about the girl I'm with and we have pretty good sex.
I have no intention of giving up M but am considering trying hard mode for a period of time to see how I feel as a result but I don't see anything wrong with M in principal.
Ok so this is really kinda factual and dry but I'm gonna come back to this and add more details. I'm actually drunk and tired right now and just wanted to finally put something up here.
I think that this site is an extremely important tool for healing. I've come to the conclusion that the people here have chosen to deal with a problem, the vastness of which is way beyond current cultural perception, and need support. Any trolling in this thread will be ignored and reported. This is not that kind of website. Debate is only helpful as a means to the end of freedom from porn.
Best wishes and my hopes for your success