NeedToKickIt
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Oh my god where to start really, probably not at the beginning but the most recent events that have actually led me to this site, thankfully. A couple of nights ago I hooked up with a much younger woman that I'd been in touch with via a casual sex/hookup site (think Tinder but a website so more complex and interesting). We had dinner and drinks etc and a hotel room was already booked and we both knew that we'd fuck if we actually got on ok face to face. So the inevitable happened and we had amazing sex, she came quickly and she was deep throating me to get me to come before moving on to anal etc etc. But the bottom line is despite her best efforts, and despite me loving the sex I just could not orgasm.
Now I suspected I might have some isues on the night, so I'd abstained from masturbation (though not porn) for a few days beforehand and I'd popped a Viagra before getting to the hotel, and I could feel the hot flushes in my legs and face so I think that worked. Unfortunately I'd had a couple of beers and a Bacardi in the bar so I'm sure that didn't help. Anyway, I had no problem getting hard, even before she had my pants off but the erection wasn't rock hard like it should have been and like I said, I couldn't come.
I've been jerking to porn in printed or internet form now for 30 years, for the past 15 almost exclusively - averaged out I've probably only had sex once a year over that 15 year period and the past 5 years I've not been intimate with a woman at all Until the other night!
I think my "mild" ED (I hope it's only that), and my definate inability to come which I even had 7-5 years ago when having sex with my now ex girlfriend, is down to my porn addiction. Now I want to sort myself, or at least my dick, out and not have to worry about whether or not I'm going to get hard and/or come with a woman.
My issue now is how do I get best short term results? I'll even settle for a job half done as I'm due to hook up again with my sex buddy again in less than two weeks and I don't want to let her down a second time. It's been a week now since I last orgasmed and 0 days since I last saw an erotice photo (as I said I hooked up with her via an erotic site soo...) and what really worries me is flatlining during that time when I'm due to meet. At least last time I made her come, if my dick is dead I know I won't get to see her again.
Should I just get some stronger Viagra, not watch porn and not jerk off for until our date and hope I'm not flatlining then? I don't think I can avoid the subsitutions...I'll be photographing another woman from the same site so even though she's a real person I'll still need to process those images and even beforehand look at others for inspiration.
Thanks for reading, it's not easy to type, nor read I expect. Advice, experiences shared will be much appreciated.
Now I suspected I might have some isues on the night, so I'd abstained from masturbation (though not porn) for a few days beforehand and I'd popped a Viagra before getting to the hotel, and I could feel the hot flushes in my legs and face so I think that worked. Unfortunately I'd had a couple of beers and a Bacardi in the bar so I'm sure that didn't help. Anyway, I had no problem getting hard, even before she had my pants off but the erection wasn't rock hard like it should have been and like I said, I couldn't come.
I've been jerking to porn in printed or internet form now for 30 years, for the past 15 almost exclusively - averaged out I've probably only had sex once a year over that 15 year period and the past 5 years I've not been intimate with a woman at all Until the other night!
I think my "mild" ED (I hope it's only that), and my definate inability to come which I even had 7-5 years ago when having sex with my now ex girlfriend, is down to my porn addiction. Now I want to sort myself, or at least my dick, out and not have to worry about whether or not I'm going to get hard and/or come with a woman.
My issue now is how do I get best short term results? I'll even settle for a job half done as I'm due to hook up again with my sex buddy again in less than two weeks and I don't want to let her down a second time. It's been a week now since I last orgasmed and 0 days since I last saw an erotice photo (as I said I hooked up with her via an erotic site soo...) and what really worries me is flatlining during that time when I'm due to meet. At least last time I made her come, if my dick is dead I know I won't get to see her again.
Should I just get some stronger Viagra, not watch porn and not jerk off for until our date and hope I'm not flatlining then? I don't think I can avoid the subsitutions...I'll be photographing another woman from the same site so even though she's a real person I'll still need to process those images and even beforehand look at others for inspiration.
Thanks for reading, it's not easy to type, nor read I expect. Advice, experiences shared will be much appreciated.