Needhelp19male
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Guys , can i jack off with out porn and if i try to think about anything else but fucking ? , i feel like i have waaaaay to much and i need to take out the old and rebuild with the new
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No porn nut ?
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Hi mate,
You'll get 2 answers from people here. Some will say, yes, I think most will say no.
The Yes goes like this. We're trying to separate porn use from our sexuality. if you just stay in your self, in the present moment, and focus on just the sensation of jacking off and anticipation of an O; no hot girls, no porn scenes, then it's ok.
I'm trying to reboot after years of porn addiction. I've tried M without the porn. it never works, because it's like going to a steak house and just ordering a potato. I'm feeling good, all the chemicals are buzzing, then I let a little fantasy in my mind happen, and suddenly it's 20 times better. without fail, a PMO relapse is not far off.
The No will go like this.
You don't need to jack off. it's not a physical requirement. believe me, I know, it feels like it is, but O isn't food and water, it just feels fucking great. and after doing it so much you've become addicted to it, then not-feeling-fucking-great feels a like going without food and water. alcoholics feel they need a drink. smokers need a cigarette. But if you're on this forum, I guess you want to give up porn, I think it's best to focus on other things in life for three months. When the porn addict in you is dead somewhat, then think about re introducing M back in your life (though this could be the wrong move. you don't want to undo all your good work, be careful).
There are things to do other than M. workout/ run - then rest with your legs raised up against the wall and feel your body being grateful for the workout and relaxation. something physical in the moment of an urge is a good idea. but after that, challenge your mind - read, be creative. And of course, communicating with real people is the opposite of this sad lonely habit we're addicted to. call a friend, see a family member, get engaged with the world.
But it's going to be painful.
Also, I should say, giving up porn isn't fun. it's painful. MO feels like it is needed as much as food or water (or more - some bastards did experiments on rats, and the rats starved themselves if they had an option of being able to continuously press a sensually pleasurable buzzer instead of stopping so they could eat something). So all my writing about other activities above might sound positive, but they wont feel great like an MO will. getting through the pain of xhoosing not to MO'ing / PMO'ing is a challenge, and we'll get through to the other side to where it wont be painful anymore, wont it be great?
This meditation from youtube about relaxing and letting urges pass has helped me loads: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yp_D8GInoHM
Hope this helps!
You'll get 2 answers from people here. Some will say, yes, I think most will say no.
The Yes goes like this. We're trying to separate porn use from our sexuality. if you just stay in your self, in the present moment, and focus on just the sensation of jacking off and anticipation of an O; no hot girls, no porn scenes, then it's ok.
I'm trying to reboot after years of porn addiction. I've tried M without the porn. it never works, because it's like going to a steak house and just ordering a potato. I'm feeling good, all the chemicals are buzzing, then I let a little fantasy in my mind happen, and suddenly it's 20 times better. without fail, a PMO relapse is not far off.
The No will go like this.
You don't need to jack off. it's not a physical requirement. believe me, I know, it feels like it is, but O isn't food and water, it just feels fucking great. and after doing it so much you've become addicted to it, then not-feeling-fucking-great feels a like going without food and water. alcoholics feel they need a drink. smokers need a cigarette. But if you're on this forum, I guess you want to give up porn, I think it's best to focus on other things in life for three months. When the porn addict in you is dead somewhat, then think about re introducing M back in your life (though this could be the wrong move. you don't want to undo all your good work, be careful).
There are things to do other than M. workout/ run - then rest with your legs raised up against the wall and feel your body being grateful for the workout and relaxation. something physical in the moment of an urge is a good idea. but after that, challenge your mind - read, be creative. And of course, communicating with real people is the opposite of this sad lonely habit we're addicted to. call a friend, see a family member, get engaged with the world.
But it's going to be painful.
Also, I should say, giving up porn isn't fun. it's painful. MO feels like it is needed as much as food or water (or more - some bastards did experiments on rats, and the rats starved themselves if they had an option of being able to continuously press a sensually pleasurable buzzer instead of stopping so they could eat something). So all my writing about other activities above might sound positive, but they wont feel great like an MO will. getting through the pain of xhoosing not to MO'ing / PMO'ing is a challenge, and we'll get through to the other side to where it wont be painful anymore, wont it be great?
This meditation from youtube about relaxing and letting urges pass has helped me loads: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yp_D8GInoHM
Hope this helps!