My recovery. PIED and lack of motiviation

Death Trap

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I think fantasizing is fine, but as with all things, don't overdo it (like, don't sit there and do it for an hour or something). And certainly don't fantasize about porn; fantasize about real girls/women.

By "working up an erection", I mean, touch yourself until you get hard, but don't have a good time doing it. It's an ironic phrase, but if you can do it, it does work. At any rate, since you don't need to get hard to do kegels, just do them regularly.

Now, when are you going back to Germany? Do you have a girl you can hook up with lined up? If you've been having erectile dysfunction with girls (in your teenage years...), I would advise you to stop edging/mastrubating at all--and then just wait until you can get with a girl.
 
But where is the line? When is it Fantasizing about porn and when about real girls? :D If I know them? Or if it's not love?

Aaah now i understand. I get myself hard through touching, but im not really aroused, right?

10 more days. No not really, but I plan to go out and hope to find someone. I want to get to know new people and then this should come together.

Yes, I have/had PIED and/with PA. Yes I will stop edging by now.

Buuuut: Last week I decided to MO. Completely without Imagination. Because the night before i couldnt fall asleep for over 3 hours where i also edged and almost watched pornsubs. The same happened the nights before. Thats why i told myself i need to do this now. I didnt even have urges to watch porn, just to masturbate. And I didnt want the urge to masturbate lead to porn. Did the deed and it didnt even feel that great. immediatly after the O I felt lonely and a bit weird. 'why did i do this, I didnt really enjoy this that much that its worth endangering my next sexual experience with a real person'. And i wrote down how i felt after. I don't have the Temptation to do this again soon.
But I want to have a healthy relationship with my sexuality and Since there was no artificial stimulation involved... It was a good experience, now I know that im not missing out.^^

 

Do or die

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NoFapValentine said:
What do you guys think about: thinking of sexual stuff or dreaming about sexual stuff? Im on day 17 or Smth and i didnt have a wet dream yet, but i had some sexual dreams and today when i woke up, i tried to sleep again to be in the sexual dream again haha. I was also hard, but im not sure if that counts as morning wood^^
Is stuff like this allowed or is it bad for my reboot?
sexual dreams are just showing your sexual desiers  ....and its okay to have such type of dreams ....and to avoid wet dreams sleep early and wake up early
 
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