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UNDERSTANDING INTEREST
There is a sequence to the development of interest.
Curiosity -> exploration -> seeking -> discovery -> application -> reinforcement
PMO is also an interest
The problem with PMO very other interests :
too much supply
too easy to obtain
rewards too much
it very quickly replaces other interests as the main focus
However, unlike other interests, PMO doesnt develop nor benefit
there are no skills learnt that can be reapplied in the real world sense
there are no tangible benefits that reward in the real world, like status or property
there are not social benefits the promote recognition and association.
furthermore, there are not relationship benefits with the P performers.
Thinking further, do we even want a relationship with any of them?
INTEREST IN PEOPLE
What kind of people interests you?
intelligence, personality, positivity are usually my priorities.
Few of the P performers exhibit any of these.
In the real world sense, I would probably not be attracted to them other than physicality
So P reinforces OBJECTIFYING PEOPLE.
Recall that the interest cycle includes reinforcement.
Therefore we will reinforce some bad habits.
More seriously, we will reinforce within ourselves MISALIGNMENT
Bad habits:
seeing people as objects
spending huge amount of time on unproductive activities
Misalignment
developing interest in certain groups of people we would not be interested in real life
developling behaviors not supportive of developing long term self development and improvement.
investing precious time in areas to actuall DOES NOT reward us in the real sense.
There is a sequence to the development of interest.
Curiosity -> exploration -> seeking -> discovery -> application -> reinforcement
PMO is also an interest
The problem with PMO very other interests :
too much supply
too easy to obtain
rewards too much
it very quickly replaces other interests as the main focus
However, unlike other interests, PMO doesnt develop nor benefit
there are no skills learnt that can be reapplied in the real world sense
there are no tangible benefits that reward in the real world, like status or property
there are not social benefits the promote recognition and association.
furthermore, there are not relationship benefits with the P performers.
Thinking further, do we even want a relationship with any of them?
INTEREST IN PEOPLE
What kind of people interests you?
intelligence, personality, positivity are usually my priorities.
Few of the P performers exhibit any of these.
In the real world sense, I would probably not be attracted to them other than physicality
So P reinforces OBJECTIFYING PEOPLE.
Recall that the interest cycle includes reinforcement.
Therefore we will reinforce some bad habits.
More seriously, we will reinforce within ourselves MISALIGNMENT
Bad habits:
seeing people as objects
spending huge amount of time on unproductive activities
Misalignment
developing interest in certain groups of people we would not be interested in real life
developling behaviors not supportive of developing long term self development and improvement.
investing precious time in areas to actuall DOES NOT reward us in the real sense.