Desensitization Questions looking for answers.

[mpkl]

So im a 19yo and as most of all during oral sex i fel almost nothing besides there is some stimulation but thats only because of the image...Is this desensitization problem that occured to brain or penis or both?Have read "The brain it changes itself" and "How porn affects the brain" book but still havent got an answer about this problem..im on day 16 or so and im willing to keep this no pmo until 90-100days and after that i will try MO only to sense..sounds good to you?Need your guidance!

P.S. My morning woods come and go not some steady thing but most of times after day 7 i had..also i noticed that i cant keep an erection for long except i thing about porn scenes (which i hardly avoid) or use my imagination..Is someone similar to my case that have been healed?If so pm me please i need your lights! Have a nice day amd thanks fpr reading my thread!

 

[lifety]

Hi Mpkl

Would say it's desensitization due to the brain. Was in a similar situation myself and thought it was physical.
Wasn't, just needed to rewire and stay clean from porn.

Personally myself I would stay away from MO. Perfect if you can MO to sense only but it's pretty easy to fantasies
or get the chaser effect from it.

 

[mpkl]

Im sticked to no pmo hard (day 25) willing to get it 100days.After these days im planning a circumcision for health reasons and it will be essy for me to get 100+ days cause i wont even able to get an erection without gettimg pain.I wont get back to the p boat at any cost and this ends.God knows how many moments i sacrificed due to porn and i dont mean only sex moments.Had a great girlfriend beautiful and understanding but p made me not to enjoy moments.I F hate it..Wish i had learnt this back then.Anyway regret cant do sth but it can piss meoff to keep up.
Did you have desensitazation too?
Thanks for reply

 

[lifety]

Use to. Was real hard to finish. Soon as I rewired and sex didn't feel so alien/strange I was fine.  Glad to see your on the right path and 25 days free.
Reading your post I know how you feel (about missing it, did this early etc) but it's important to focus on the present and your great future.

Learn from your mistakes (past) but try to not dwell on them

 

[mpkl]

Could you please send me a good link about rewiring?I would be grateful.Thanks in advance!

 

[lifety]

http://fightthenewdrug.org/how-porn-changes-the-brain/

Can go both ways, so just need to keep up contact with your GF. Even things like hugging, contact help don't have to go all the way.

 

[mpkl]

What a time to be alive!Im without a gf for a long f time.In my life i had many gfs tho.Even if im better looking and inetter shape. Thsnks for the topic tho.I need to step my hunting game a bit LoL