True2Myself
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Hi All, Well day 32 for my PMO, and until now I've had a surprisingly easy time not watching any P.
Not to say that it hasn't popped into my mind, but I've been able to get my mind on other things until the urges pass.
Lately though, what I call "mini-fantasies" will pop into my head, and are getting more frequent and harder to fight off. Are these just normal withdrawal symptoms, just delayed in my case?
I guess I should add, that I think one of the reasons these fantasies are so hard to erase is that they are based on actual real-life experiences, not Internet. Most of the time they are about real bi-sexual encounters that my wife had when she was in her 30's, long before I was in the picture.
Before the big Porn Addiction bomb was dropped, she used to share stories with me (in great detail) about encounters between her and her girlfriend. Lesbian sex has always been my biggest weakness, and unlike the Internet kind, real encounters have become more hard-wired into my brain, because they actually happened and not just some Porn actresses acting out a scene. She knew of my desire for this kind of thing, and could get me hard in about 2 seconds by talking about her encounters.
However, that the "bomb" was dropped, any since then, any mention or thoughts of it is forbidden, and I'm expected to just erase it from my memory banks. Yeah, right...
I don't have the fantasies to the point where I get hard and FAP, but sometimes they come so fast and are too close for comfort, and this scares the heck out of me that I will relapse.
So why am I posting this other than to just vent it out? I guess just looking for support and tips and techniques to stop fantasies dead in their tracks as they are close to getting out of hand.
Sorry for the rambling, but I need to get this off my chest in an effort to better understand it.
Thanks for listening, and comments, ideas are always welcomed!
Not to say that it hasn't popped into my mind, but I've been able to get my mind on other things until the urges pass.
Lately though, what I call "mini-fantasies" will pop into my head, and are getting more frequent and harder to fight off. Are these just normal withdrawal symptoms, just delayed in my case?
I guess I should add, that I think one of the reasons these fantasies are so hard to erase is that they are based on actual real-life experiences, not Internet. Most of the time they are about real bi-sexual encounters that my wife had when she was in her 30's, long before I was in the picture.
Before the big Porn Addiction bomb was dropped, she used to share stories with me (in great detail) about encounters between her and her girlfriend. Lesbian sex has always been my biggest weakness, and unlike the Internet kind, real encounters have become more hard-wired into my brain, because they actually happened and not just some Porn actresses acting out a scene. She knew of my desire for this kind of thing, and could get me hard in about 2 seconds by talking about her encounters.
However, that the "bomb" was dropped, any since then, any mention or thoughts of it is forbidden, and I'm expected to just erase it from my memory banks. Yeah, right...
I don't have the fantasies to the point where I get hard and FAP, but sometimes they come so fast and are too close for comfort, and this scares the heck out of me that I will relapse.
So why am I posting this other than to just vent it out? I guess just looking for support and tips and techniques to stop fantasies dead in their tracks as they are close to getting out of hand.
Sorry for the rambling, but I need to get this off my chest in an effort to better understand it.
Thanks for listening, and comments, ideas are always welcomed!