I have been doing some journaling on forgiveness and really pondering what forgiveness looks like. I feel like my husband and I are in a good place overall. There are still areas where I can feel the hurt well up but they are slowing becoming fewer and fewer and the hurt has less power over me. I have some really great days and usually, from out of nowhere, I will have a day where my mind just can't move out of the awareness of the hurt. Today was one of those days. Thankfully, I was able to do my breathing and quick meditations through the day and I did not allow my day to be ruined by yesterdays sadness. That brings me to my question. What does forgiveness look like? Every time I think I am there and consistently doing well with everything I feel like I am smacked my a bad day. What does forgiveness look like long term? I am hoping that maybe the bad days continue to become fewer and further between? I am hoping for more connection and closeness to develop. I have lots of hopes. I can't be the only one, lol. What do others hope for? What is your long-term goal?