No fap update 87 days but still no morning wood

Bpositive

Member
Hello all. I hav not relapsed even once in past 87 days.Overall in the last 160 days i hav masturbated only once. I have noticed the following effects on my body since i started NoFap
1) My penis has changed its appearance it is more longer when it gets erected than wider.
2) On some days my libido is quite good and i get erections easily to about 60 to 65 percent. on other days my libido stays very low.
3) in this past 3 months i have been on hard mode no sexual images no fantasizing , no any touching of penis.
4) In this past 87 days i have never felt too high a libido. It is usually little high for some days then goes down totally.
5) Also at some point during this period i have never felt anything on kissingmywife or cuddling her. Things which erected my penis about 3 to 4 years back when my porn addictions were less.
6) But lately in last week or so i can see i am getting 70 to 75 percent erections byforeplay which is a big change compared to 0 erections 3 months back with same things. My libido has gradually increased too in last 1 week. I definitely can see lots of changes in nofap.

But i hav noticed one interesting thing. I dont notice my high libido unless i start kissing or cuddling. Then suddenly out of nowhere i get erections and i feel thecraving to do sex. But after a while it seems like my libido goes down again.And after a while when i start kissing then again my erections are good and after i finish kissing the libido goes down again. Is this normal? I am waiting for the daywhen my libido will be high even without sexual contact with a girl.

Also now that i am seeing good erections but those erections only happen during some times. Like if i get close to my wife 5 times in a day then only 2 or 3 times iget good erections and feel good. The rest of the times my libido is low. Have u guys felt something similar?
Also my morning erections are not back consistently. Would these b back 100 % once we are healed?

Should i take ed pills and do sex at thistime? Wil taking ed pills upset my progess so far in last 87 days? Thanks guys.
 
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Numez

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you are doing great. you will not wake up recovered, its gradual and non linear process so what you described, changes in your libido and ED problems are normal. it does get better with time overall, as you noticed but its not constantly better. some days can be worse than others.

taking pills would be bad but i dont know physically if its bad. you are trying to speed things up, to boost your erections unnaturally which is worst part of it. you may be starting to get little impatient which is not the greatest mindset for the reboot. patience is big virtue when dealing with porn addiction.

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sex is fine but see how you feel afterwards, if you feel chaser effect after orgasming with your wife, or some other bad effects in libido and ED, mental numbess, whatever... then avoid O or limit it to once per week max.
 

Bpositive

Member
Thanks for ur reply.Yes i should be patient. My marriage is at the verge of collapse. Even my parents and my wifes parents know about it. I feel almost suicidal. But thats life for us men. I did not know before when i was doing pmo that our bodies are so complicated. 3 years back in my first relationship i had perfect erections and i really had no problems becoz i was not much into pmo at that time. But now how can i prove that i always had good erections and get them back to 100% soon. This is really tough for us men. We masturbated to pmo to get rid of loneliness frustration. Especially me when i broke up from my first relation i did lot of pmo in last 3 years to get rid of frustration becoz i loved tthe girl so much and she had betrayed me. And now it all is coming back to haunt me. I just hope and pray to some power to help us men sufferring from this problem to get rid of this problem forever.
 
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Numez

Guest
how can i prove that i always had good erections and get them back to 100% soon.
you are getting better with time, thats a tell. maybe not soon but you will get there as everyone who quit. 
 
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