Thanks for tuning in PhineasI think that this is an unfair and highly inaccurate caricature of Reboot Nation.
I think that you're seeing things through a very specific lens, one that's based on certain interactions that you had with the opposite sex, here in your journal and in the partners section. But your perception is colored if not warped by those interactions, particularly your feelings surrounding them.
The whole existence of Reboot Nation is the healing of the hurt (both psychological and physiological) caused to (mostly) men and women. And we (men) get to discuss it all the time in helping each other.
That controversies are typically shut down isn't some kind of prejudice against men and for wives of rebooters. It's just simply good administration. We all have healing to do, and these sidebar controversies can become distracting and obfuscating of the purpose of this place, which is toward all our healing.
Perhaps i am seeing things through a specific lens But I base my statements on fact. I suppose I will try to break it down a little. Yes I have had "certain interactions" with "certain partners". I suppose I got tired of being told I was wrong in my thinking. I didnt start these controversies but sure felt the need to defend my position on my journal. I believe in total open discussion so have never complained about the views or anyone who posted in my journal. But the moment I posted in the partners section the shit hit the fan and things were stopped. So I asked if that particular topic could not continue than just shut it down. The 1st time I had to threaten to leave this site before it was shut down by a moderator(please see partner) The 2nd time I was told "no" so its still there. So I suppose I am one of a few that believes in total open conversation. I'm good with that. I never tell people they are wrong in their thinking and views. I and support to those who hold a certain view as well as the reasoning behind that support, even if it's not "popular" to some. I'm quite sorry if it gets under their skin. I force no one to stay away from my journal and if any other member wishes me not to post on their journal they just have to say the word and I will stay out of their journal no harm no foul. Just for perspective the other journal I posted this one was [email protected] If you read back a few entries you will understand the context better
Cheers and as always your views are welcome here
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