quit for good

[NYC]

@joepanic @GBS I just had 3 of 4 days sex with my wife, first since Jan 2024, after 50 days no P and about 18 days no MO, but I MOd last night, why, not sure, just feelin relaxed, thoughts of the real sex, my being says that MO will be infrequent as sex becomes more regular. I will keep ya posted.

 

[joepanic]

Hey @joepanic - I presume whilst you’re not MOing, you are still having sex with your wife, right? If so, the no MO thing could be forever, can it not?

Yep were still doing the Horizontal Bop as we always have

 

[joepanic]

So a total of 5 weeks exact no m. A record for sure. Now I m'd last night but not to porn . just sort of did it. I feel indifferent about it and don't really think of it as a big deal. I was not actually trying to abstain from it. It was just going about life and that's how it played out. I have no urge to do it again at the moment. Guess I'll see how it goes moving forward

 

[NYC]

So a total of 5 weeks exact no m. A record for sure. Now I m'd last night but not to porn . just sort of did it. I feel indifferent about it and don't really think of it as a big deal. I was not actually trying to abstain from it. It was just going about life and that's how it played out. I have no urge to do it again at the moment. Guess I'll see how it goes moving forward

So did I, I think these sensations and responses are certainly more normal, certainly then reaponding to P with MO, Im right there with you, having sex with my wife but have thrown in 2 MOs over a 5 week period, compare to daily PMO. I believe a reinforcing measure is being able to MO without any P or any facsimile of P!

 

[joepanic]

So one week ago today i had completed 5 weeks no "m" before having 1 Now it has been another week and I have never felt better I am hoping the pattern on "m" is now broken too. No real chaser effect no urges or triggers no cravings nothing