DavS
Active Member
Yes, thank you for this thread.
You are absolutely right, it's about the whole self, and the relationship, if there is one. I'm three months into my reboot. My wife and I are also doing much better.
I just want to share something that has helped us have more fun and less worries in bed. During my reboot I discovered that I don't need as many orgasims as I thought. (I guess I thought my head would explode.) It doesn't mean I don't want them, but the reward for having almost 90 percent less has been amazing! I'm in my mid sixties, and I'm more virile now than when I was a teen having one a day. In my experience, just being highly aroused for a long time gives me the dopamine, or whatever, I need to feel satisfied. My ED is gone. In our culture, much of what men are told about healthy sexual functioning is wrong.
You are absolutely right, it's about the whole self, and the relationship, if there is one. I'm three months into my reboot. My wife and I are also doing much better.
I just want to share something that has helped us have more fun and less worries in bed. During my reboot I discovered that I don't need as many orgasims as I thought. (I guess I thought my head would explode.) It doesn't mean I don't want them, but the reward for having almost 90 percent less has been amazing! I'm in my mid sixties, and I'm more virile now than when I was a teen having one a day. In my experience, just being highly aroused for a long time gives me the dopamine, or whatever, I need to feel satisfied. My ED is gone. In our culture, much of what men are told about healthy sexual functioning is wrong.