Quite the opposite, Gracie. I'm actually interested to see if WFO is going to come out and refute what I said. I'm detecting some quite strong resentment in him and I think he's not being honest about it. I think he writes in a concealed disdain for her. He's making it all about her weight and how she should try harder for him and stop embarrassing him, but I wonder how hard he's trying himself - and whether he thinks he might be part of the problem. I was going to try to tease that out of him, but you've upped the stakes now!Gracie said:Whoa guys. Oddly he asked for a woman's opinion and all of a sudden we are on the bandwagon of encouraging a split and lazy fat woman? Really?