Force to rewire

[rogerfaperer]

I know I need to rewire. But I feel so ?meh? when it comes to talking, flirting, pursuing - whatever you want to call it - with girls. And I don?t think it?s a ?flatline? because I?m 100+ days in to this reboot and am definitely constantly on the ?lookout? for cute women. It?s just the actual interaction.    Anyone else feel lackadaisical with this too???

Should I be feeling that an urge to pursue girls/hookup is replacing my pixelated sexual fill? ?Because I don?t. Is it perfectly logical that I don?t, given my previous PMO habits/lack of real girl interaction in the past?

Does someone in my situation need to push themselves to rewire and that will ?flick a switch???? (to make me want it more/make it a habit/awake natural attraction/something I strongly desire)

 

[jjhh]

I have been pushing myself to rewire. Not so much directly pursuing women, rather just pushing myself to be more social with both men and women. Because for me porn has not just been replacement of sex, but social interaction as well.

One thing to consider is that porn addiction is a form of sex addiction. Therefore replacing one form of sex addiction with another form of sex addiction is propably bad idea. So I think the consensus is that it's best to break free of porn addiction first, only then pursue normal sexual life.
That's my goal anyway.
After close to month of no PMO I don't find myself desiring more sex with real women than before (normal interest level I suppose), but I do find women much more beautiful, more pleasing to the eye and ear in non-sexual ways. Or perhaps its sexual, just not so...pornographic.