Thanks for your encouraging words @StepbyStep.
I do not have an accountability partner in real life. I am kind of on my own.
I will not give up this fight until my last breathe. I do not want to give up the fight to recover , i have been dreaming of a complete recovery from the age of 16 . I was introduced to PMO at age of 15 by a friend in an internet cafe.how i wish i had never got into this at all
I have seen in my life that I am only a starter. i do not take the journey ahead. i relapse within 10 days mostly. That's my story so far. my best streak was 6 years ago when my kid was born .
it was 25 days clean streak.
I will try requesting an accountability partner now to see if that helps, there are no recovery groups near me where i can meet in person and also for maintaining anonymity i am not comfortable going to real meets.
I relapsed 2nd time in a day today so i am writing again here today. I am totally down in swamps today.
here is my performance as of today -
2016 - 95 relapses
2017 - 97 relapses
2018 - 71 relapses
2019 - 56 relapses as of today (my target for 2019 was 46 which i blew already !!! need to slow down this year now - big time ).
2020 - Target (15 Relapses)
2021 - Target (5 Relapses)
2022- Target ( 1 Relapse)
best clean streak in 2019 - 17 days
best clean streak in 2018 - 18 days
best clean streak in 2017 - 10 days