Wolfman
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Been fighting bouts of depression every day of this week.
On Tuesday there was a sexual encounter, which was actually good even though it was likely the shortest I've had in my life, but I discovered that pleasure for pleasure's sake, even with a real person, is a kind of banality. Caressing someone lovingly who you do not love, really manifested itself like this irresistable force at the bottom that I couldn't push away, no matter how pleasant pleasure was. It was strange; never had this experience before. Like our movements pretended something was the case; as if we really liked each other. It really gave me the notion of how senseless these ventures are and what matters is a real connection; we actually spent most of our time just talking, which I found more invigorating and interesting than the action.
The day after I just lost track of myself. I thought maybe this was because of the intensity the day prior, but I've been having huge downs on each day after. Today I woke up in dismal despair about the future--I don't know where all this is coming from, I thought I had more courage in me. I don't know if I have the strength to pursue an academic career--I feel I've had enough as it is. At the same time, I cannot help thinking I'm giving something precious and important up. That if I leave this path, it will be locked to me.
I had a moment of restoration today when I listened to music, particularly some old favorites, it really brought enthusiasm back to me for a brief time. Then I went for a walk and then the store, and now I'm back, feeling as wretched and as worried as before.
On Tuesday there was a sexual encounter, which was actually good even though it was likely the shortest I've had in my life, but I discovered that pleasure for pleasure's sake, even with a real person, is a kind of banality. Caressing someone lovingly who you do not love, really manifested itself like this irresistable force at the bottom that I couldn't push away, no matter how pleasant pleasure was. It was strange; never had this experience before. Like our movements pretended something was the case; as if we really liked each other. It really gave me the notion of how senseless these ventures are and what matters is a real connection; we actually spent most of our time just talking, which I found more invigorating and interesting than the action.
The day after I just lost track of myself. I thought maybe this was because of the intensity the day prior, but I've been having huge downs on each day after. Today I woke up in dismal despair about the future--I don't know where all this is coming from, I thought I had more courage in me. I don't know if I have the strength to pursue an academic career--I feel I've had enough as it is. At the same time, I cannot help thinking I'm giving something precious and important up. That if I leave this path, it will be locked to me.
I had a moment of restoration today when I listened to music, particularly some old favorites, it really brought enthusiasm back to me for a brief time. Then I went for a walk and then the store, and now I'm back, feeling as wretched and as worried as before.