Day 14
MO'ed last night again couldn't sleep due to stress from my job. I don't like that habit, but it is much better than going after p. I don't have any chaser effect for it. I am likely quitting my job. Things have become incredibly toxic here and the person I am arguing with has more power than me. It doesn't help that now in China there has been a huge rise in anti-foreigner sentiment. I complained quite publicly about lazy TA I have who is very entitled to the point where she will do whatever she wants in my class. This wouldn't necessarily be a problem if she didn't complain to my head boss about my class and also, simultaneously try to give me work while doing very little herself. This kind of thing is common here, but she is one of the more toxic cases. I definitely made it worse by complaining about her publicly which was a bad move, but it was the angriest I have been in a very long time. I don't really feel an urge to use p or anything like that I keep possible triggers down to a minimum so urges are not really present. I cannot emphasize enough how frustrating and tiring this last month has been.
MO'ed last night again couldn't sleep due to stress from my job. I don't like that habit, but it is much better than going after p. I don't have any chaser effect for it. I am likely quitting my job. Things have become incredibly toxic here and the person I am arguing with has more power than me. It doesn't help that now in China there has been a huge rise in anti-foreigner sentiment. I complained quite publicly about lazy TA I have who is very entitled to the point where she will do whatever she wants in my class. This wouldn't necessarily be a problem if she didn't complain to my head boss about my class and also, simultaneously try to give me work while doing very little herself. This kind of thing is common here, but she is one of the more toxic cases. I definitely made it worse by complaining about her publicly which was a bad move, but it was the angriest I have been in a very long time. I don't really feel an urge to use p or anything like that I keep possible triggers down to a minimum so urges are not really present. I cannot emphasize enough how frustrating and tiring this last month has been.