I understand very well how this goes. What I've realized is that a relapse many times, at least in my case, starts in the mind long before it actually happens. I "prepare" myself for the relapse thinking about the pleasure and trying to rationalize why a tiny relapse would not be a bad idea. And then when the urges get to 10/10, I have a hard time getting out of there because I have already crossed the line. In my opinion, the Easy Peasy method should be the first step, because without the de-brainwashing that it's actually the whole point of the book, we won't make it, maybe only through massive willpower and pushing ourselves through it but I don't know many people who can do that. I can't. What I think we need to do is reprogram our minds to see porn as "not an option, something we don't need for anything in our lives, not for pleasure, not for medication."