Hopeless21
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My boyfriend of 12 years has what I think is an addiction to porn. We have been together for 12 years. He says he?s been watching porn at least 2-3 times a week for his entire adult life. He is now 41. Our sex life has completely stopped. We had multiple discussions about his porn use. He denies he has a problem. He says he can stop. He says it?s because of me why we don?t have sex anymore. Says it has nothing to do with porn. Says he still loves me.
He is open ( at times) to seeing a sex therapist. But then he backs off.
My question is :
What are the factors that determine he may be addicted to porn use? He has all of the physiological symptoms. Can?t stay erect during intercourse. Has no libido ( for me anyway). Cannot ejaculate with me any longer. Etc.
Thank you.
My mental health is being destroyed through all of this. He says some very hurtful things to me regarding this.
He is open ( at times) to seeing a sex therapist. But then he backs off.
My question is :
What are the factors that determine he may be addicted to porn use? He has all of the physiological symptoms. Can?t stay erect during intercourse. Has no libido ( for me anyway). Cannot ejaculate with me any longer. Etc.
Thank you.
My mental health is being destroyed through all of this. He says some very hurtful things to me regarding this.