Reboot vs rewiring for a virgin

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Hey guys. Let me tell you a little about myself. I think o first started high speed porn at around 14 or 15.

(Trigger warnining)

Before that, I had minor sexual experience such as dry humping a girl in which a came and some touching maybe for a couple months. I had absolutely no porn induced ED. But no sex at all. But than I start watching high speed porn once or twice every two days. Not much compared to other people, but still, I stayed about 2 hours per session.

Now I am a 22 year old virgin who honestly, I am afraid. That is because not because I can't, but it is because getting a girlfriend is not an option for me. In my religion, I must get married in order to have any kind of sexual pleasures or touchy touchy with a girl. I mean, I expect to get married in 3 years or so.

So my question is, can rebooting alone cure porn induced ED? If not, what methods can I use to rewire that don't involve anything sexual or touchy touchy? I know this sounds weird, but all cultures are different. But I would love to have an honest conversation. Thanks.
 

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@hello
So my question is, can rebooting alone cure porn induced ED?

I think you will be fine. Stay away from the porn. If touchy touchy is off the menu then at least spend time around girls and think about real girls. If you can hold and cuddle with a girl before you get married and kiss then that should be enough to re-wire you. Just reboot until you get married. I think in that amount of time your body/brain will understand a real person is the only place it will get pleasure.

There is no for sure answer to your question as everyone is different. If you can get hard to your hands touch alone without porn you should be fine come wedding time. Just relax and stay away from the porn my man. Hope the best for you
 
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I hope so. I mean, I pmo'd, but not as often as others do such as every day 3 or 4 times per days. Normally I do it twice (within an hour or two) every two days. What is your intake? I edged a lot. Now I am also focusing on relaxing my pc muscles and my once per day, I do reverse kegels.

Another thing, I rarely fantasize about sex or any sexual things. I fantasize about non sexual things. But I do want to stop though. But is that also damaging too?
 
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Mart71

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I also didn't think I did PMO "too much", like every second or third day, yet I ended up with P.I.ED. The desensitization can work it's black magic even on low dosages. To be on the safe side, you should really just give up on porn and I mean giving it up for life.

If you do that, you can "reboot" until you marry, which is probably years away. By then you should be fine. But if you keep using porn, there is a chance you just dig your hole deeper.
 

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It might take a little bit longer, but as long as you can kiss and cuddle with girls...I think that is all the rewiring you really need!
 

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I see, well, what if I don't kiss or cuddle? I mean, I am definitely around women a lot because I am in a university. There are lots of women in my class. But I don't speak with them. I am just around them.
 

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Hello hello  ;D  (always wanted to say that)

I'm curious, what does your religion think about porn?
You don't have to tell me exactly what religion it is.

Because if everyone has to follow the same rules, then all the other male peers have to
wait for touchy, touchy, correct?

If you don't have E.D., then you are a-ok.
However, that doesn't mean it's a good idea to maintain your porn habit.
I do sense some anxiety in you. That's normal. I had that too when I was a virgin.
 
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