Well, I finished the project I was talking about. In the past I would have not only not really put myself out there on something like that, but even the parts that I would have had more of a stake in, I would have played it off like it didn't really matter if people didn't like it. Then I'd also be crushed, even though I knew I could have put more effort into it. Well, with this project, I took a lot of chances, tried a lot of new things, basically went for it, and...
It went so well I am still basking in it. My whole team loved it. I had members outside of the team working on it comment on how amazed they were, one in particular reached out through chat and asked how I was able to do it all, this is my (slightly edited in bold to remove names/details) response:
1. The work didn't take as long as it could have in the past as I get more comfortable with the software.
2. Coworker jumped in and basically did all of the second big part of the other large job that I had set time aside to do so I was able to spend time during the day on it
(This alone is huge because in the past I wouldn't have been able to get my shit together to even be in a position to get help from someone else)
3. I am at the beginning of a personal journey that includes therapy as well as limiting stuff like Reddit, Youtube etc so that's given me a lot more time
(He was incredibly supportive and happy for me to know I was working on improving my mental health)
In the two weeks since I've been on this journey, I'm so much better at my job it's unreal. Helps when you're not zoning out and surfing the web mindlessly half the day. I not only did that project that everyone loved (myself included. It's nice to be excited about something like that and then proud of how it turned out), I got all my other work done including stuff that's not due until next week. That's just during the day, at night I'm ploughing through books instead of more mindless internet surfing that always ended up at PMO eventually. Fighting PMO has had so many positive effects. I'm incredibly grateful for my awesome coworkers, I'm grateful for all of you on here who help me talk through this stuff, I'm grateful to my partner who has been amazingly understanding as much as all of this also hurts like hell and most of all I'm grateful to have this chance to change my life for the better. See you all tomorrow. It's another great day for fighting.